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Why you Must Block her Social Media after a Breakup

Jariel

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If there’s one thing more humiliating than self-pity and breakup drama, it’s when you do it publicly. Not only will you lose her respect, you’ll lose the respect of all your online friends and followers. They’ll see exactly why she needed to get away from you.

A lot of couples play hurtful games on social media after a breakup. It can turn into a competition of who cares the least and who’s moved on the quickest. They drag innocent victims into their drama and take shots at each other via passive aggressive memes. It’s cringe-worthy for everyone watching. It prolongs the suffering of the breakup and can cause irreparable damage.

Likewise, we’ve all seen guys posting heartfelt verses about lost love, depression and suicide, in an underhanded attempt to guilt trip their ex. For ****’s sake, don’t embarrass yourself like this! If you can’t control what you post, you need to deactivate your social media until you’re thinking clearly.

All this drama and paranoia is self-inflicted and completely unnecessary. It’s keeping you stuck in the past and preventing you from moving on.

This is why you MUST block her social media after a breakup.



Online stalking can ruin your life
Another destructive aspect of social media is the temptation to stalk your ex. In this day and age it’s easy to find out what she’s up to and who she’s with. It hurts when you see new photos of her, especially if she appears to be having fun without you. You might see another guy in her photos or see them chatting in her comments section. You’re going to get anxious and blow the slightest sign out of proportion.

Let’s be blunt here. Now that she’s single, she’s entitled to talk to whoever she wants. She can date and live life as she sees fit. That’s hard for you to deal with, but you have no claim on her. So why torture yourself?

Like monkeys swinging from branch to branch, there are a lot of girls who won’t let go of their relationship until they have another prospect in their grasp. It’s a ****ty move and it’s going to hurt like hell if you see her with another man so soon after your breakup. But what are you going to do? Confront her? Play the self righteous victim and whine about how you were betrayed?

Digging into her business can turn into an obsession that can literally ruin your life.

Even if you find evidence that she lied or cheated, you are the one who will suffer. You’ll carry this bitterness and distrust for the rest of your life, allowing it to drag you down and sabotage future relationships. It’s in your best interest if you don’t know what she’s doing or who she’s with.



Ride into the Sunset
Rise above it and show some pride. Remove yourself from her life by deactivating social media or blocking her accounts. If you have mutual friends, ask them not to tell you anything about her. If she or anyone else asks why you’ve blocked her, explain you think it’s best to make a clean break and cut all ties. It shows you’re serious about moving on.

Whether you want her back or you want to move on, blocking her social media is going to help you to detach and speed up your recovery. You’ll avert suffering and jealousy, and it’ll help you to retain your dignity.
 

Paper Crane

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Yeah man, if you can't just move on without doing so, def block her social medias. That will make things much easier. I used to be in a pretty bad relationship and It was super humiliating how I was acting towards her after the breakup. Pretty much just embarassed myself completely, and would look at her social media and it made it hard to get over her.

This was a while back but It taught me alot about relationships and breakups. Now, I look back and laugh. It's crazy the kind of girls I settled for when I was alot dumber.
 

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You shouldn't even have social media in the first place.
 

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You shouldn't even have social media in the first place.
I used to feel this way but after awhile so many girls instead of asking me for my number just wanted my Facebook. When I didn't have Facebook/Insta they thought that was strange and weird. Usually though a girl will add you and then do a quick stalk and usually it helps because of pictures of social proof. It think it helps with initial attraction. I don't post much but I do get tagged by friends all the time.
 

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It is not "weird", "beta" or anything else to block a woman after a break up. I find it actually the opposite. A beta male would want to stalk her, follow her and see what she is doing after a break up because he cant control himself. An alpha male is just done with her and moves on.

I never understood why someone would want to keep tabs on someone after its over, especially after that person done them wrong or was disrespectful (especially cheating- any form).

If you had sewage running into your house and all you had to do to stop it was turn it off, wouldnt you do it?

Same goes for this situation. Why not take the trash out, put it in the dumpster and move on. No reason to let these garbage women stay in your life once the relationship with them is over.
 

FlexpertHamilton

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I used to feel this way but after awhile so many girls instead of asking me for my number just wanted my Facebook. When I didn't have Facebook/Insta they thought that was strange and weird. Usually though a girl will add you and then do a quick stalk and usually it helps because of pictures of social proof. It think it helps with initial attraction. I don't post much but I do get tagged by friends all the time.
I don't doubt it helps for social proof but its not worth it. Social media is cancer.
 
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