Dhoulmagus
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It's like becoming a running joke for me right now. Especially when guys know exactly the number of days it's been.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Why so many posts about NC here
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
logicallefty
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NC is discussed here a lot because it is one of our most powerful DJ tools and it's applicable in many of the situations we talk about.Dhoulmagus said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's because so many guys only start searching the internet for dating advice AFTER they've been f*cked over by a girl.
They come here and post bitter sh*t, ask questions they don't learn from, and then "fall in love" with some new b*tch and leave for a year or two. Then when that girl dumps them they come back here and the cycle continues. Etc. etc. etc.
Thus the vast majority of threads here are about:
1) What to do when a chick f*cks you over (no contact, etc).
2) How evil women are.
It does get pretty comical after awhile.
EDIT:
Here are two that I read after making this post... hahahaa
1) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223162
2) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223160
Two for two!
They come here and post bitter sh*t, ask questions they don't learn from, and then "fall in love" with some new b*tch and leave for a year or two. Then when that girl dumps them they come back here and the cycle continues. Etc. etc. etc.
Thus the vast majority of threads here are about:
1) What to do when a chick f*cks you over (no contact, etc).
2) How evil women are.
It does get pretty comical after awhile.
EDIT:
Here are two that I read after making this post... hahahaa
1) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223162
It's the old "I got f*cked over, then I read stuff I didn't learn anything from, then I got f*cked over again..." thread.
2) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223160
It's the "all women are evil" thread.
Two for two!