Dhoulmagus
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It's like becoming a running joke for me right now. Especially when guys know exactly the number of days it's been.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why so many posts about NC here
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
logicallefty
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NC is discussed here a lot because it is one of our most powerful DJ tools and it's applicable in many of the situations we talk about.Dhoulmagus said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's because so many guys only start searching the internet for dating advice AFTER they've been f*cked over by a girl.
They come here and post bitter sh*t, ask questions they don't learn from, and then "fall in love" with some new b*tch and leave for a year or two. Then when that girl dumps them they come back here and the cycle continues. Etc. etc. etc.
Thus the vast majority of threads here are about:
1) What to do when a chick f*cks you over (no contact, etc).
2) How evil women are.
It does get pretty comical after awhile.
EDIT:
Here are two that I read after making this post... hahahaa
1) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223162
2) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223160
Two for two!
They come here and post bitter sh*t, ask questions they don't learn from, and then "fall in love" with some new b*tch and leave for a year or two. Then when that girl dumps them they come back here and the cycle continues. Etc. etc. etc.
Thus the vast majority of threads here are about:
1) What to do when a chick f*cks you over (no contact, etc).
2) How evil women are.
It does get pretty comical after awhile.
EDIT:
Here are two that I read after making this post... hahahaa
1) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223162
It's the old "I got f*cked over, then I read stuff I didn't learn anything from, then I got f*cked over again..." thread.
2) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223160
It's the "all women are evil" thread.
Two for two!