Dhoulmagus
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It's like becoming a running joke for me right now. Especially when guys know exactly the number of days it's been.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why so many posts about NC here
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
logicallefty
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NC is discussed here a lot because it is one of our most powerful DJ tools and it's applicable in many of the situations we talk about.Dhoulmagus said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's because so many guys only start searching the internet for dating advice AFTER they've been f*cked over by a girl.
They come here and post bitter sh*t, ask questions they don't learn from, and then "fall in love" with some new b*tch and leave for a year or two. Then when that girl dumps them they come back here and the cycle continues. Etc. etc. etc.
Thus the vast majority of threads here are about:
1) What to do when a chick f*cks you over (no contact, etc).
2) How evil women are.
It does get pretty comical after awhile.
EDIT:
Here are two that I read after making this post... hahahaa
1) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223162
2) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223160
Two for two!
They come here and post bitter sh*t, ask questions they don't learn from, and then "fall in love" with some new b*tch and leave for a year or two. Then when that girl dumps them they come back here and the cycle continues. Etc. etc. etc.
Thus the vast majority of threads here are about:
1) What to do when a chick f*cks you over (no contact, etc).
2) How evil women are.
It does get pretty comical after awhile.
EDIT:
Here are two that I read after making this post... hahahaa
1) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223162
It's the old "I got f*cked over, then I read stuff I didn't learn anything from, then I got f*cked over again..." thread.
2) http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223160
It's the "all women are evil" thread.
Two for two!