Why should I have to pay for dates

[Dhoulmagus]

Woman make equal pay now, I am not trying to marry her, and we both have our own goals. I could fully understand back then, but now it is pointless. Especially with the numuerous low quality of girls in this country. I say if she makes you pay than she has to put out that night.

 

[Tictac]

You don't.

 

[marmel75]

You don't have to pay. It doesn't shed a favorable light on you however. Typically if you invite someone to a place it's common courtesy that you pay unless other arrangements are made prior. Now if she invited you, then the same rules would apply and I would expect her to pay for it.

I understand the younger generation was largely raised without manners, knowledge of common courtesy or tact, so I don't take for granted anymore that this would be common sense.

 

[El Payaso]

Because women only want "equality" in the parts that benefit them.

If you don't want to pay, it's easy. Just take them to a cheap coffee place where both of you will have to go dutch.

Never take them out on proper dates and if you're good looking, you can even ask them to pay for your food.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Because women only want "equality" in the parts that benefit them.

If you don't want to pay, it's easy. Just take them to a cheap coffee place where both of you will have to go dutch.

Never take them out on proper dates and if you're good looking, you can even ask them to pay for your food.

That's what I do haha.

 

[Poon King]

Not only do you NOT have to pay for dates.. but you don't have GO on dates to begin with.

I never ask women out on "dates". I just invite them to do something I am already doing. I don't believe in "dates". Dates are way too structured and rooted in beta submission. I say beta submission because most men go on dates because it is what they are "supposed to do".

Nothing says BETA like always following other people's rules.

 

[EyeBRollin]

You don't. A lot of women expect to go half.

I pay if I invite anyone (women and men) to a function. If a woman reaches out to me and suggests a place she would like to go, the expectation is that she will pay.

 

[marmel75]

You don't. A lot of women expect to go half.

I pay if I invite anyone (women and men) to a function. If a woman reaches out to me and suggests a place she would like to go, the expectation is that she will pay.

Yes, that is because you understand common courtesy and social sense. A lot of people, especially younger people, don't.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Can someone share how you go about asking your date or invite to pay their share, give us some examples.

Eg 'Do you want to go to ABC together?' 'Im going to ABC, you're welcome to join me/come along.'

With European women I say something like, 'Would you like to come to ABC, we can split the bill so there's no pressure.' If I like her and I feel she's not a drainer, I'll shout a drink or two, but later in the night. That's always worked well for me.

I don't go out on so called dates at all though. I set up the deal and contact the women who have genuine IOI and go from there.

 

[dustmuffin]

That's what I do haha.

I do the same and my ex gf paid for me all of the time. Good dates are for gfs. And if it is really expensive you split it.