"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why not go where you're 100x as attractive?

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SE Asia, especially the Philippines. If you CYA about your property, and you get her to pay you 100-150k over a 3-5 year period, why CARE if she divorces you at that point? you can then get another one, take longer to find a better one. With 100k in the bank you'll be able to be a MUCH better "catch", so you can get an engineer, MD, dentist, etc. and get paid more like 200k, the second time. If you can't figure out a way to retire on 1/4 million $, you deserve to have to work for 50 years and have nothing.

yes, it will cost you 5k, most likely to find a good nurse there, and 5k more to get her back to US and working (60k per year, clearing 40k). So what? The Dept of Education will give you 24k for attending college/studing 800 hours, spread over a year. Jan to january,, if you go at it intelligently. That's cash in your hand. They'll also give you almost 10k of grants, so that takes care of your actual expenses at your local jr college.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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to hell with these US beeches. Which one of THEM is going to give you 35k per year for 3 years, untaxed, just because you're single and a US citizen, eh?
 

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This guy is Backseatjuan. Exact same writing style. I bet if you ran ips
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Op is a 62 year old fart with dementia, nothing to see here folks, move along
 

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I want to go to the Phillipines to enjoy the local casinos there and bang some hot Phillipinas on the beach, but this thread is fricked up on so many levels.
 

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Wisconsin144 said:
This literally made my brain hurt...
I read it just because of your comment... oh my god. I was having to stop every other sentence to regain my composure from laughing.
 
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