"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why not go where you're 100x as attractive?

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SE Asia, especially the Philippines. If you CYA about your property, and you get her to pay you 100-150k over a 3-5 year period, why CARE if she divorces you at that point? you can then get another one, take longer to find a better one. With 100k in the bank you'll be able to be a MUCH better "catch", so you can get an engineer, MD, dentist, etc. and get paid more like 200k, the second time. If you can't figure out a way to retire on 1/4 million $, you deserve to have to work for 50 years and have nothing.

yes, it will cost you 5k, most likely to find a good nurse there, and 5k more to get her back to US and working (60k per year, clearing 40k). So what? The Dept of Education will give you 24k for attending college/studing 800 hours, spread over a year. Jan to january,, if you go at it intelligently. That's cash in your hand. They'll also give you almost 10k of grants, so that takes care of your actual expenses at your local jr college.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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to hell with these US beeches. Which one of THEM is going to give you 35k per year for 3 years, untaxed, just because you're single and a US citizen, eh?
 

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This guy is Backseatjuan. Exact same writing style. I bet if you ran ips
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thatfeel

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Op is a 62 year old fart with dementia, nothing to see here folks, move along
 

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I want to go to the Phillipines to enjoy the local casinos there and bang some hot Phillipinas on the beach, but this thread is fricked up on so many levels.
 

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Wisconsin144 said:
This literally made my brain hurt...
I read it just because of your comment... oh my god. I was having to stop every other sentence to regain my composure from laughing.
 
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