"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why not go where you're 100x as attractive?

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SE Asia, especially the Philippines. If you CYA about your property, and you get her to pay you 100-150k over a 3-5 year period, why CARE if she divorces you at that point? you can then get another one, take longer to find a better one. With 100k in the bank you'll be able to be a MUCH better "catch", so you can get an engineer, MD, dentist, etc. and get paid more like 200k, the second time. If you can't figure out a way to retire on 1/4 million $, you deserve to have to work for 50 years and have nothing.

yes, it will cost you 5k, most likely to find a good nurse there, and 5k more to get her back to US and working (60k per year, clearing 40k). So what? The Dept of Education will give you 24k for attending college/studing 800 hours, spread over a year. Jan to january,, if you go at it intelligently. That's cash in your hand. They'll also give you almost 10k of grants, so that takes care of your actual expenses at your local jr college.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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to hell with these US beeches. Which one of THEM is going to give you 35k per year for 3 years, untaxed, just because you're single and a US citizen, eh?
 

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This guy is Backseatjuan. Exact same writing style. I bet if you ran ips
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Op is a 62 year old fart with dementia, nothing to see here folks, move along
 

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I want to go to the Phillipines to enjoy the local casinos there and bang some hot Phillipinas on the beach, but this thread is fricked up on so many levels.
 

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Wisconsin144 said:
This literally made my brain hurt...
I read it just because of your comment... oh my god. I was having to stop every other sentence to regain my composure from laughing.
 
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