"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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why most women want dates and relationships instead of straight banging

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ChristopherColumbus

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Agreed. However, it's thrown a lot of things out of whack. After all, men, in general, follow women. I've heard of some men discussing and stating they've been asking a woman each time they proceed from kissing, to may I do this, may I do that, etc. They are afraid of Metoo, arrest, targets, etc. On California campuses, they have consent contracts that must be signed prior to intercourse. This is soon going to turn into Demolition Man (
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After a point, men will say, it's just not worth the risk of ruining their lives with false accusations from bitter women (https://abcnews.go.com/US/woman-falsely-accused-texas-state-trooper-sexual-assault/story?id=55407714).

The other part would be due to the fact that children, in general, are not being raised by two parents. They are being raised by day care. Thus, children, mostly males, are not getting the necessary tools in order to form into a confident and successful man. Do you know how many men I know who are in their late 20's and early 30's who live with their parents and have no job? It's pretty bad around here.. They all have college degrees, but their parents coddle them, so they are not ready for the real harsh world. Pathetic. These are not men..
The sex scene here reminds me of 'Brave New World', where people sign up beforehand for recreational sex.

Perhaps the problem is the idea of recreational sex altogether. A future sociologist may marvel at the way in which recreational sex first developed so chaotically and randomly... and then note the backlash that set in, where it was rationalized.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most girls would only drain my bank account instead of my nuts. Even those who supposedly want a “family”.

@BeExcellent i totally agree that all that mushy stuff is great. But how often does it happen? Women these days are more into their IG account than having a relationship. Even ones in their 30s.
 
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