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AJ84
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In Toronto yes lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
why most women want dates and relationships instead of straight banging
- Thread starter sosousage
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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AJ84
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Not true. He does most of the cooking. He's a very good cook.
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AJ84
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Thank you we got married last year.A little while ago you reffered to your partner as your fiancee.
I guess congratulations are in order!
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You ****1ng him good and being good to him?
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
The sex scene here reminds me of 'Brave New World', where people sign up beforehand for recreational sex.
Perhaps the problem is the idea of recreational sex altogether. A future sociologist may marvel at the way in which recreational sex first developed so chaotically and randomly... and then note the backlash that set in, where it was rationalized.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most girls would only drain my bank account instead of my nuts. Even those who supposedly want a “family”.
@BeExcellent i totally agree that all that mushy stuff is great. But how often does it happen? Women these days are more into their IG account than having a relationship. Even ones in their 30s.
@BeExcellent i totally agree that all that mushy stuff is great. But how often does it happen? Women these days are more into their IG account than having a relationship. Even ones in their 30s.