"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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why most women want dates and relationships instead of straight banging

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Agreed. However, it's thrown a lot of things out of whack. After all, men, in general, follow women. I've heard of some men discussing and stating they've been asking a woman each time they proceed from kissing, to may I do this, may I do that, etc. They are afraid of Metoo, arrest, targets, etc. On California campuses, they have consent contracts that must be signed prior to intercourse. This is soon going to turn into Demolition Man (
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After a point, men will say, it's just not worth the risk of ruining their lives with false accusations from bitter women (https://abcnews.go.com/US/woman-falsely-accused-texas-state-trooper-sexual-assault/story?id=55407714).

The other part would be due to the fact that children, in general, are not being raised by two parents. They are being raised by day care. Thus, children, mostly males, are not getting the necessary tools in order to form into a confident and successful man. Do you know how many men I know who are in their late 20's and early 30's who live with their parents and have no job? It's pretty bad around here.. They all have college degrees, but their parents coddle them, so they are not ready for the real harsh world. Pathetic. These are not men..
The sex scene here reminds me of 'Brave New World', where people sign up beforehand for recreational sex.

Perhaps the problem is the idea of recreational sex altogether. A future sociologist may marvel at the way in which recreational sex first developed so chaotically and randomly... and then note the backlash that set in, where it was rationalized.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Most girls would only drain my bank account instead of my nuts. Even those who supposedly want a “family”.

@BeExcellent i totally agree that all that mushy stuff is great. But how often does it happen? Women these days are more into their IG account than having a relationship. Even ones in their 30s.
 
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