Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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why most women want dates and relationships instead of straight banging

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChristopherColumbus

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Agreed. However, it's thrown a lot of things out of whack. After all, men, in general, follow women. I've heard of some men discussing and stating they've been asking a woman each time they proceed from kissing, to may I do this, may I do that, etc. They are afraid of Metoo, arrest, targets, etc. On California campuses, they have consent contracts that must be signed prior to intercourse. This is soon going to turn into Demolition Man (
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After a point, men will say, it's just not worth the risk of ruining their lives with false accusations from bitter women (https://abcnews.go.com/US/woman-falsely-accused-texas-state-trooper-sexual-assault/story?id=55407714).

The other part would be due to the fact that children, in general, are not being raised by two parents. They are being raised by day care. Thus, children, mostly males, are not getting the necessary tools in order to form into a confident and successful man. Do you know how many men I know who are in their late 20's and early 30's who live with their parents and have no job? It's pretty bad around here.. They all have college degrees, but their parents coddle them, so they are not ready for the real harsh world. Pathetic. These are not men..
The sex scene here reminds me of 'Brave New World', where people sign up beforehand for recreational sex.

Perhaps the problem is the idea of recreational sex altogether. A future sociologist may marvel at the way in which recreational sex first developed so chaotically and randomly... and then note the backlash that set in, where it was rationalized.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most girls would only drain my bank account instead of my nuts. Even those who supposedly want a “family”.

@BeExcellent i totally agree that all that mushy stuff is great. But how often does it happen? Women these days are more into their IG account than having a relationship. Even ones in their 30s.
 
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