Why most online dating advice fails for men

[Bingo-Player]

Id believe it for sure.Truth.
I saw a similar video by the YouTuber guy PlayingWirhFire and some Chad friend of his .. showing everyone this Chads Tinder chats etc
Chads text replies to the girls were so basic it was sickening.

I’ve had girls make it easy as piss for me at times , but I won’t say they are quality chicks. So it’s the same situ w average girl or hotter girls texting Chad.

who is the guy on TikTok?

Yea I mean you have to take some of it with a pinch of salt because its very very easy to fake stuff for the internet now

But certainly in my own experiences when I've been running on a hot streak women will just cave in easily especially if their horny so I can believe all of it

Think his account was shayymaxx or something like that I'll have to check

 

[BackInTheGame78]

So men should expand their options to connect with single mothers?

I'm simply saying expecting a woman to not have kids after a certain age is pretty absurd.

And the ones that do don't have kids past age 35, that's the biggest hidden red flag you could ask for.

So either you can limit your dating pool significantly and date women that are walking red flags, or expand your dating pool to include single Moms.

I have kids myself so I preferred single Moms, but that's not every guy's preference.

The reasoning most guys give is comical tho.

 

[CornbreadFed]

And the ones that do don't have kids past age 35, that's the biggest hidden red flag you could ask for.

My neighbor is in her 40s, a complete Karen, borderline obese, never had kids, owns three dogs, and has a raspy sucked a lot of dvck party voice. She’s never had trouble attracting men, and they often have money or are pretty good-looking for their age. Regardless of their status, women are going to attract men. She has a boyfriend right now, but I’m always thinking this guy could easily date some 20-year-old who’s never left her small town just by taking her to Chili’s every Friday, yet he chooses her.

 

[BadBoy89]

I'm simply saying expecting a woman to not have kids after a certain age is pretty absurd.

And the ones that do don't have kids past age 35, that's the biggest hidden red flag you could ask for.

So either you can limit your dating pool significantly and date women that are walking red flags, or expand your dating pool to include single Moms.

I have kids myself so I preferred single Moms, but that's not every guy's preference.

The reasoning most guys give is comical tho.

When you have kids yourself, it totally changes the conversation. The advice given is based on a different mindset than a man who wants kids. From a man's point of view; she is used goods, she is damaged, she has already got pregnant when she was younger and hotter.

When a man has kids himself, his dating pool widens from 18-60. He's relaxed, he's not nervous, he wants nothing from the woman. Doesn't work out? Next. Doesn't work out? Next. Doesn't work out? Next. It's all good. He got what he wanted from the previous woman, so now he can chill and let any woman try to impress him.

When a man doesn't have kids and wants them, his dating pool shrinks and the man has to on the whole time, he has to be nervous not to mess up, he has to be on his best behavior until she falls for him, sleeps with him, and delivers a healthy baby.

Sorry brother, your advice if often decent, but to tell men who want kids to widen their dating pool and go for women who have previously gotten pregnant from a guy when they were younger and hotter, when you have kids yourself, it's logical.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

When you have kids yourself, it totally changes the conversation. The advice given is based on a different mindset than a man who wants kids. From a man's point of view; she is used goods, she is damaged, she has already got pregnant when she was younger and hotter.

When a man has kids himself, his dating pool widens from 18-60. He's relaxed, he's not nervous, he wants nothing from the woman. Doesn't work out? Next. Doesn't work out? Next. Doesn't work out? Next. It's all good. He got what he wanted from the previous woman, so now he can chill and let any woman try to impress him.

When a man doesn't have kids and wants them, his dating pool shrinks and the man has to on the whole time, he has to be nervous not to mess up, he has to be on his best behavior until she falls for him, sleeps with him, and delivers a healthy baby.

Sorry brother, your advice if often decent, but to tell men who want kids to widen their dating pool and go for women who have previously gotten pregnant from a guy when they were younger and hotter, when you have kids yourself, it's logical.

Maybe not, but do you really want kids with someone who is a walking red flag?

Any woman who is worth having kids with is going to have already had them before she is 35.

I guess the more obvious answer is that the guy needs to either date younger or decide sooner.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

My neighbor is in her 40s, a complete Karen, borderline obese, never had kids, owns three dogs, and has a raspy sucked a lot of dvck party voice. She’s never had trouble attracting men, and they often have money or are pretty good-looking for their age. Regardless of their status, women are going to attract men. She has a boyfriend right now, but I’m always thinking this guy could easily date some 20-year-old who’s never left her small town just by taking her to Chili’s every Friday, yet he chooses her.

As I said....walking red flag. Just because some men are desperate and will fvck anything doesn't change that

 

[Cheeky_James]

I’m just on Hinge right now.
I’m stuck on some cute chicks profile as I’ve run out of likes.
One of the ‘prompts’ on her bio -
“I go crazy for : “ she’s written “insanely handsome men”.
At least she’s honest. lol.

 

[Solomon]

OP Haven't you been in an LTR for years? why are you talking about OLD? why not talk about relationship game or maintenance?
Most women in OLD are low quality for one reason or another
Yes women aren't a monolith and water is wet


*MIc drop*

 

[Clockwerk50]

I disagree. The revolving door of members since this place started indicates that most men get eventually get a girlfriend and then move on to different priorities. Also, the majority of the current stable members here either have a girlfriend or are married or have FWB.

 

[RangerMIke]

You can not be accurate with advice if you can’t actually SEE what is happening. Most communication is body language and mannerisms. If a man says “She was great, everything was fine, I did all the right things, and out of no where she dumped me. What happened?” I would have to observe her when things were supposed to be ‘great’. You can look at a couple eating in a restaurant, without hearing a word of what they are saying to each other and tell if they are fine or headed into trouble. You just have to be observant. Women are by and large much better at this then men.

 

[plumber]

Yea I mean you have to take some of it with a pinch of salt because its very very easy to fake stuff for the internet now

But certainly in my own experiences when I've been running on a hot streak women will just cave in easily especially if their horny so I can believe all of it

Think his account was shayymaxx or something like that I'll have to check

i recall some time ago you reporting that it was difficult or slow going. what did you change to get improvement ? was it just time or is something you did that others can do ?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

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[Plinco]

Location Location Location.

In a city with more than let's say 500.000 people your chances will significantly increase. What also matters is how much patient a man has. Most men wanna fire up tinder and expect immediate results, and thus they'll delete the app perhaps the same day they would indeed meet their" future ex wife". View attachment 14996

I'm stealing that picture.

 

[Plinco]

When you make millions of dollars and are rich and famous you can do just about anything and it will "work".

Stop comparing yourself to people who have substantial advantages that you'll never have. You are being delusional otherwise.

Acting like that doesn't matter is like saying a person being ugly and 450 lbs doesn't matter.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

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Didn't ask for a pic of your results

 

[Plinco]

Didn't ask for a pic of your results

I'm glad you didn't answer the way I expected you to.