"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Why Men and Women can't be friends"

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What women know unless you aren't a nice guy from the get go.

No man with a penis is really your friend
You say he is, but it's all pretend
He listens to your problems every time he phones you
But he's really not, he just wants to bone you!

Case closed.
 

BlackMack177

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I like how all the chicks were all like "Yes!"

and the guys are like "well....I don't know"

Basically these women are saying these guys are only friends cuz they tried and failed to get the ass.
I don't see anything wrong with that, but people need to see it for what it is. Somebody is gonna like the other one at some point in time
 

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BlackMack177 said:
I like how all the chicks were all like "Yes!"

and the guys are like "well....I don't know"

Basically these women are saying these guys are only friends cuz they tried and failed to get the ass.
I don't see anything wrong with that, but people need to see it for what it is. Somebody is gonna like the other one at some point in time
Or they didn't try at all.

But on another note, it's kind of like a girl who you don't find attractive trying to be "friends" with you. It's happened to me before and when they have emotional diarrhea on you, it's kind of uncomfortable.
 

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all my girl "friends" are attractive. well at least to me. i alwasy drop hints that i want to put it in their butt. they laugh at those comments. i dont care. ill eventually smash their punani one day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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At first I thought he just got a bunch of chicks to say yes and guys to say no. But then he went back and asked the same chicks if their guy friends would sleep with them, and the y all basically admitted it. There is a huge disconnect between what guys and girls see as friendship.
 

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They should have asked if those women had ever felt attracted to their guy friends, even a little bit. Furthermore, I found it really interesting how these chicks know about their friends having sexual desires towards them and they are perfectly fine with it. Ha ha. You can pull off a "friendship" if you have got self-control, and the other thing is that you sometimes like the personality as well.
 

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They can be friends! Only if they are not attracted to each other!
 

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most guys will think this, ever since I was a little kid I've been telling people that I can't be friends with women. This is the exact reason why!
 

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I think given certain circumstances, men and women can be just friends.

My friend, who can get almost any women he wants, has a few girl friends. However, I think a few of these girl have feelings for him, but realize after a while that they can't have him. They still remain friends, though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Htienvu said:
most guys will think this, ever since I was a little kid I've been telling people that I can't be friends with women. This is the exact reason why!
:))
 
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