"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"Why Men and Women can't be friends"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nismo-4
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What women know unless you aren't a nice guy from the get go.
No man with a penis is really your friend
You say he is, but it's all pretend
He listens to your problems every time he phones you
But he's really not, he just wants to bone you!
Case closed.
No man with a penis is really your friend
You say he is, but it's all pretend
He listens to your problems every time he phones you
But he's really not, he just wants to bone you!
Case closed.
BlackMack177
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I like how all the chicks were all like "Yes!"
and the guys are like "well....I don't know"
Basically these women are saying these guys are only friends cuz they tried and failed to get the ass.
I don't see anything wrong with that, but people need to see it for what it is. Somebody is gonna like the other one at some point in time
and the guys are like "well....I don't know"
Basically these women are saying these guys are only friends cuz they tried and failed to get the ass.
I don't see anything wrong with that, but people need to see it for what it is. Somebody is gonna like the other one at some point in time
Alex DeLarge
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Or they didn't try at all.BlackMack177 said:
But on another note, it's kind of like a girl who you don't find attractive trying to be "friends" with you. It's happened to me before and when they have emotional diarrhea on you, it's kind of uncomfortable.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
At first I thought he just got a bunch of chicks to say yes and guys to say no. But then he went back and asked the same chicks if their guy friends would sleep with them, and the y all basically admitted it. There is a huge disconnect between what guys and girls see as friendship.
PapiChulo
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They should have asked if those women had ever felt attracted to their guy friends, even a little bit. Furthermore, I found it really interesting how these chicks know about their friends having sexual desires towards them and they are perfectly fine with it. Ha ha. You can pull off a "friendship" if you have got self-control, and the other thing is that you sometimes like the personality as well.
DrPhysique
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I think given certain circumstances, men and women can be just friends.
My friend, who can get almost any women he wants, has a few girl friends. However, I think a few of these girl have feelings for him, but realize after a while that they can't have him. They still remain friends, though.
My friend, who can get almost any women he wants, has a few girl friends. However, I think a few of these girl have feelings for him, but realize after a while that they can't have him. They still remain friends, though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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