"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Why Men and Women can't be friends"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
nismo-4
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What women know unless you aren't a nice guy from the get go.
No man with a penis is really your friend
You say he is, but it's all pretend
He listens to your problems every time he phones you
But he's really not, he just wants to bone you!
Case closed.
No man with a penis is really your friend
You say he is, but it's all pretend
He listens to your problems every time he phones you
But he's really not, he just wants to bone you!
Case closed.
BlackMack177
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I like how all the chicks were all like "Yes!"
and the guys are like "well....I don't know"
Basically these women are saying these guys are only friends cuz they tried and failed to get the ass.
I don't see anything wrong with that, but people need to see it for what it is. Somebody is gonna like the other one at some point in time
and the guys are like "well....I don't know"
Basically these women are saying these guys are only friends cuz they tried and failed to get the ass.
I don't see anything wrong with that, but people need to see it for what it is. Somebody is gonna like the other one at some point in time
Alex DeLarge
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Or they didn't try at all.BlackMack177 said:
But on another note, it's kind of like a girl who you don't find attractive trying to be "friends" with you. It's happened to me before and when they have emotional diarrhea on you, it's kind of uncomfortable.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
At first I thought he just got a bunch of chicks to say yes and guys to say no. But then he went back and asked the same chicks if their guy friends would sleep with them, and the y all basically admitted it. There is a huge disconnect between what guys and girls see as friendship.
PapiChulo
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They should have asked if those women had ever felt attracted to their guy friends, even a little bit. Furthermore, I found it really interesting how these chicks know about their friends having sexual desires towards them and they are perfectly fine with it. Ha ha. You can pull off a "friendship" if you have got self-control, and the other thing is that you sometimes like the personality as well.
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I think given certain circumstances, men and women can be just friends.
My friend, who can get almost any women he wants, has a few girl friends. However, I think a few of these girl have feelings for him, but realize after a while that they can't have him. They still remain friends, though.
My friend, who can get almost any women he wants, has a few girl friends. However, I think a few of these girl have feelings for him, but realize after a while that they can't have him. They still remain friends, though.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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