Tonight im going out ive just had my hair cut and to be honest i look ****ing great. Now i usualy go into the local shop and one of the assistants behind the till chats to me and i bust on her all the time. this time i went in and when she served me never really spoke and never held eye contact ? why do you think this is? could it be because she feels intimidated because i look so good is it possible to be too good looking when talking to certain women?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
why is this happening?
- Thread starter don code
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
it could be. Maybe you do not look as good as you think. Maybe its her not you maybe she had a bad bay or somthing. There are many possible reasons.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
like i said maybe shes embarased because you look good or because you look bad, or maybe its to do with her eg low confidence suddenly.
SDFUandDie
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maybe she's on the rag and dont have a tampon and it soaked thru her pants lol
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
urbanwhite
Don Juan
Find out if she's interested in you by asking for her number. Her actions could've meant anything.