Tonight im going out ive just had my hair cut and to be honest i look ****ing great. Now i usualy go into the local shop and one of the assistants behind the till chats to me and i bust on her all the time. this time i went in and when she served me never really spoke and never held eye contact ? why do you think this is? could it be because she feels intimidated because i look so good is it possible to be too good looking when talking to certain women?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
why is this happening?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
it could be. Maybe you do not look as good as you think. Maybe its her not you maybe she had a bad bay or somthing. There are many possible reasons.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
like i said maybe shes embarased because you look good or because you look bad, or maybe its to do with her eg low confidence suddenly.
SDFUandDie
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maybe she's on the rag and dont have a tampon and it soaked thru her pants lol
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
urbanwhite
Don Juan
Find out if she's interested in you by asking for her number. Her actions could've meant anything.