Tonight im going out ive just had my hair cut and to be honest i look ****ing great. Now i usualy go into the local shop and one of the assistants behind the till chats to me and i bust on her all the time. this time i went in and when she served me never really spoke and never held eye contact ? why do you think this is? could it be because she feels intimidated because i look so good is it possible to be too good looking when talking to certain women?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
why is this happening?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
it could be. Maybe you do not look as good as you think. Maybe its her not you maybe she had a bad bay or somthing. There are many possible reasons.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
like i said maybe shes embarased because you look good or because you look bad, or maybe its to do with her eg low confidence suddenly.
SDFUandDie
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maybe she's on the rag and dont have a tampon and it soaked thru her pants lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
urbanwhite
Don Juan
Find out if she's interested in you by asking for her number. Her actions could've meant anything.