Tonight im going out ive just had my hair cut and to be honest i look ****ing great. Now i usualy go into the local shop and one of the assistants behind the till chats to me and i bust on her all the time. this time i went in and when she served me never really spoke and never held eye contact ? why do you think this is? could it be because she feels intimidated because i look so good is it possible to be too good looking when talking to certain women?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
why is this happening?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
it could be. Maybe you do not look as good as you think. Maybe its her not you maybe she had a bad bay or somthing. There are many possible reasons.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
like i said maybe shes embarased because you look good or because you look bad, or maybe its to do with her eg low confidence suddenly.
SDFUandDie
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maybe she's on the rag and dont have a tampon and it soaked thru her pants lol
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
urbanwhite
Don Juan
Find out if she's interested in you by asking for her number. Her actions could've meant anything.