"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why is this happening?

don code

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Tonight im going out ive just had my hair cut and to be honest i look ****ing great. Now i usualy go into the local shop and one of the assistants behind the till chats to me and i bust on her all the time. this time i went in and when she served me never really spoke and never held eye contact ? why do you think this is? could it be because she feels intimidated because i look so good is it possible to be too good looking when talking to certain women?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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it could be. Maybe you do not look as good as you think. Maybe its her not you maybe she had a bad bay or somthing. There are many possible reasons.
 

don code

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maybe but it seemed like she was ashamed to look at me it was very strange
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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like i said maybe shes embarased because you look good or because you look bad, or maybe its to do with her eg low confidence suddenly.
 

SDFUandDie

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maybe she's on the rag and dont have a tampon and it soaked thru her pants lol



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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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urbanwhite

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Find out if she's interested in you by asking for her number. Her actions could've meant anything.
 
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