"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why is this a bad thing?

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Lately, things have been going extremy well in terms of dating, meeting new girls etc. Ever since I got OFF sosuave and started applying the stuff I learned instead of just reading I've had major success. One stupid thing keeps popping up though..

Lately I've been hearing from specific girls that I 'flirt with everyone' when in reality I am just not afraid anymore to walk up to a HB and make conversation. I just shrugged it off, but recently this HB9 I've been somewhat interested in lately said the same thing and it kind of ticked me off (I didn't show this of course), so I just smiled and continued on working.

What's your take on this? Is this actually a good thing, or should I cut down on the 'flirting', although I'm really usually just being social. I think not doing it would be trying to act like someone I'm not, but what are your opinions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women complain about men they can't have in order to try and ward other girls from him.

Basic b!tch behaviour
 
SgtSplacker

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This is an awesome thing, girls MUST be made to feel like they have to keep trying. She HAS to know you have options. It's critical to keep this kind of thing going throughout your relationship with any girl. Just make sure she knows she's #1 and always remind her she can easily become #2. Now don;t take things too far and flirt with her sister at her bday party or anything. But keep on trucking.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's a compliment. Take it in stride.
 
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Ah, great, thank you guys for confirming. Normally speaking I wouldn't care, but I have heard this several times now and it's started to become a pattern. So, I asked because I was curious to know what the opinion was of someone who had enough experiences with this. Keep on doing what I'm doing then, thanks!
 
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