"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why is this a bad thing?

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SHChamp

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Lately, things have been going extremy well in terms of dating, meeting new girls etc. Ever since I got OFF sosuave and started applying the stuff I learned instead of just reading I've had major success. One stupid thing keeps popping up though..

Lately I've been hearing from specific girls that I 'flirt with everyone' when in reality I am just not afraid anymore to walk up to a HB and make conversation. I just shrugged it off, but recently this HB9 I've been somewhat interested in lately said the same thing and it kind of ticked me off (I didn't show this of course), so I just smiled and continued on working.

What's your take on this? Is this actually a good thing, or should I cut down on the 'flirting', although I'm really usually just being social. I think not doing it would be trying to act like someone I'm not, but what are your opinions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women complain about men they can't have in order to try and ward other girls from him.

Basic b!tch behaviour
 
SgtSplacker

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This is an awesome thing, girls MUST be made to feel like they have to keep trying. She HAS to know you have options. It's critical to keep this kind of thing going throughout your relationship with any girl. Just make sure she knows she's #1 and always remind her she can easily become #2. Now don;t take things too far and flirt with her sister at her bday party or anything. But keep on trucking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's a compliment. Take it in stride.
 
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Ah, great, thank you guys for confirming. Normally speaking I wouldn't care, but I have heard this several times now and it's started to become a pattern. So, I asked because I was curious to know what the opinion was of someone who had enough experiences with this. Keep on doing what I'm doing then, thanks!
 
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