“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why is this a bad thing?

SHChamp

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Lately, things have been going extremy well in terms of dating, meeting new girls etc. Ever since I got OFF sosuave and started applying the stuff I learned instead of just reading I've had major success. One stupid thing keeps popping up though..

Lately I've been hearing from specific girls that I 'flirt with everyone' when in reality I am just not afraid anymore to walk up to a HB and make conversation. I just shrugged it off, but recently this HB9 I've been somewhat interested in lately said the same thing and it kind of ticked me off (I didn't show this of course), so I just smiled and continued on working.

What's your take on this? Is this actually a good thing, or should I cut down on the 'flirting', although I'm really usually just being social. I think not doing it would be trying to act like someone I'm not, but what are your opinions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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old_skoolr

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Women complain about men they can't have in order to try and ward other girls from him.

Basic b!tch behaviour
 

SgtSplacker

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This is an awesome thing, girls MUST be made to feel like they have to keep trying. She HAS to know you have options. It's critical to keep this kind of thing going throughout your relationship with any girl. Just make sure she knows she's #1 and always remind her she can easily become #2. Now don;t take things too far and flirt with her sister at her bday party or anything. But keep on trucking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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It's a compliment. Take it in stride.
 

SHChamp

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Ah, great, thank you guys for confirming. Normally speaking I wouldn't care, but I have heard this several times now and it's started to become a pattern. So, I asked because I was curious to know what the opinion was of someone who had enough experiences with this. Keep on doing what I'm doing then, thanks!
 
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