"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why is this a bad thing?

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Lately, things have been going extremy well in terms of dating, meeting new girls etc. Ever since I got OFF sosuave and started applying the stuff I learned instead of just reading I've had major success. One stupid thing keeps popping up though..

Lately I've been hearing from specific girls that I 'flirt with everyone' when in reality I am just not afraid anymore to walk up to a HB and make conversation. I just shrugged it off, but recently this HB9 I've been somewhat interested in lately said the same thing and it kind of ticked me off (I didn't show this of course), so I just smiled and continued on working.

What's your take on this? Is this actually a good thing, or should I cut down on the 'flirting', although I'm really usually just being social. I think not doing it would be trying to act like someone I'm not, but what are your opinions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women complain about men they can't have in order to try and ward other girls from him.

Basic b!tch behaviour
 
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This is an awesome thing, girls MUST be made to feel like they have to keep trying. She HAS to know you have options. It's critical to keep this kind of thing going throughout your relationship with any girl. Just make sure she knows she's #1 and always remind her she can easily become #2. Now don;t take things too far and flirt with her sister at her bday party or anything. But keep on trucking.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's a compliment. Take it in stride.
 
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Ah, great, thank you guys for confirming. Normally speaking I wouldn't care, but I have heard this several times now and it's started to become a pattern. So, I asked because I was curious to know what the opinion was of someone who had enough experiences with this. Keep on doing what I'm doing then, thanks!
 
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