Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why is this a bad thing?

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Lately, things have been going extremy well in terms of dating, meeting new girls etc. Ever since I got OFF sosuave and started applying the stuff I learned instead of just reading I've had major success. One stupid thing keeps popping up though..

Lately I've been hearing from specific girls that I 'flirt with everyone' when in reality I am just not afraid anymore to walk up to a HB and make conversation. I just shrugged it off, but recently this HB9 I've been somewhat interested in lately said the same thing and it kind of ticked me off (I didn't show this of course), so I just smiled and continued on working.

What's your take on this? Is this actually a good thing, or should I cut down on the 'flirting', although I'm really usually just being social. I think not doing it would be trying to act like someone I'm not, but what are your opinions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women complain about men they can't have in order to try and ward other girls from him.

Basic b!tch behaviour
 
SgtSplacker

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This is an awesome thing, girls MUST be made to feel like they have to keep trying. She HAS to know you have options. It's critical to keep this kind of thing going throughout your relationship with any girl. Just make sure she knows she's #1 and always remind her she can easily become #2. Now don;t take things too far and flirt with her sister at her bday party or anything. But keep on trucking.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's a compliment. Take it in stride.
 
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Ah, great, thank you guys for confirming. Normally speaking I wouldn't care, but I have heard this several times now and it's started to become a pattern. So, I asked because I was curious to know what the opinion was of someone who had enough experiences with this. Keep on doing what I'm doing then, thanks!
 
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