CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
This has been an issue since the late 20th century and now you are starting to see the US and even China get affected by it. Why has this problem been put under the sand for so long?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah that's why I specified the industrialized world.Earth's population continues to rise, so it's challenging to make that case.
The United States had a population of 250 million in 1990 and now is over 330 million.
Your country was one of the biggest perpetrators lol.Maybe because the industrialised world caused the problem?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well I don't like most woman other than for the thing in between their legs, so I guess it makes sense.The root cause is that in general, women just don't like most men, but in generations past they had to put up with most men because of economics and the social zeitgeist. When women don't like the available men, they don't feel like getting pregnant.
Aaron Clarey of course has a video about this:
The long version:
The short version:
Here's another one, of intermediate length:The root cause is that in general, women just don't like most men, but in generations past they had to put up with most men because of economics and the social zeitgeist. When women don't like the available men, they don't feel like getting pregnant.
Aaron Clarey of course has a video about this:
The long version:
The short version:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
1. High cost of raising children.This has been an issue since the late 20th century and now you are starting to see the US and even China get affected by it. Why has this problem been put under the sand for so long?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Legally you could say 1990 30,000,000 Or thirty million... World population at 30,000,000. Like there should be a training for posting factsEarth's population continues to rise, so it's challenging to make that case.
The United States had a population of 250 million in 1990 and now is over 330 million.
Yeah, the high staus 5%. Everyone not attractive to them is a boy.Women like men. They don't like boys, and they don't want to get pregnant from boys.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.