Any relationships that you break apart have something to do with you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why even bother with a long relationship?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
ooh that's good, sig'd
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
well if she's already DTF nothing you can do about that except decide if the risk is worth the reward
I was thinking of it in a context of going out of your way to seduce a chick with a bf
logicallefty
Moderator
Let me clarify what I said I don't think I was clear. What I meant by that was if a woman has a boyfriend or a husband, no thanks! I have other options. I have no reason to take the risk involved in making moves on another man's woman . Sleeping with her, etc. Women that are taken and sleep around can very easily change their mind the next day when they go back to their own man and then accuse the guy they cheated with of rape because they had an emotional shift. Not worth the trouble.
Unlikely.
Just sounds like you're afraid of people to be honest. That's ok though.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I would never go out of my way to chase a woman with a BF.
That would be desperate.
logicallefty
Moderator
That is exactly my point. It's not worth it. Especially when you always have other options available to that don't have the BF factor.
Jetleg
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No, that has nothing to do with evolution.And Its not the strongest ("alpha") who survives, i hope you know it.
if you meant biology, then yes, she would look for another men to f*ck.
but you know whats funny? i dont give a f*ck because i got enough options.
Sometimes i feel people in this forum should chill a bit with this alpha and beta thing.