"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why even bother with a long relationship?

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No dude. I have nothing to do with a man being a loser and his cheating hoe GF being a slut.

Those people's relationships have nothing to do with me. The karma is on the girl for being a cheating slut.
Any relationships that you break apart have something to do with you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's a topic switch.

What we are talking about is if a woman is into you and wants to sex you up and you turn her down because you are worried about her bozo BF. What I'm saying is if she is ready to cheat it means her BF either cheated already or she doesn't respect him. Neither of these things are my problem or your problem. Hope I'm making sense.
well if she's already DTF nothing you can do about that except decide if the risk is worth the reward

I was thinking of it in a context of going out of your way to seduce a chick with a bf
 

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That's a topic switch.

What we are talking about is if a woman is into you and wants to sex you up and you turn her down because you are worried about her bozo BF. What I'm saying is if she is ready to cheat it means her BF either cheated already or she doesn't respect him. Neither of these things are my problem or your problem. Hope I'm making sense.
Let me clarify what I said I don't think I was clear. What I meant by that was if a woman has a boyfriend or a husband, no thanks! I have other options. I have no reason to take the risk involved in making moves on another man's woman . Sleeping with her, etc. Women that are taken and sleep around can very easily change their mind the next day when they go back to their own man and then accuse the guy they cheated with of rape because they had an emotional shift. Not worth the trouble.
 

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Let me clarify what I said I don't think I was clear. What I meant by that was if a woman has a boyfriend or a husband, no thanks! I have other options. I have no reason to take the risk involved in making moves on another man's woman . Sleeping with her, etc. Women that are taken and sleep around can very easily change their mind the next day when they go back to their own man and then accuse the guy they cheated with of rape because they had an emotional shift. Not worth the trouble.
Unlikely.

Just sounds like you're afraid of people to be honest. That's ok though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You can stick "karma" up your arse. It doesn't exist, and isn't relevant.

Karma is a consolation for losers.

The basic order of human existence is thus:

Alpha male
Woman
Beta provider

It's women that turn men into providers. Donkeys to pull the cart. It's a man's responsibility not to let that happen to him.

Basic evolution. The woman in the original post will just get her alpha DNA elsewhere instead.
You post some good stuff.

Very practical way to look at it.
 

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well if she's already DTF nothing you can do about that except decide if the risk is worth the reward

I was thinking of it in a context of going out of your way to seduce a chick with a bf
I would never go out of my way to chase a woman with a BF.

That would be desperate.
 

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I would never go out of my way to chase a woman with a BF.

That would be desperate.
That is exactly my point. It's not worth it. Especially when you always have other options available to that don't have the BF factor.
 

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You can stick "karma" up your arse. It doesn't exist, and isn't relevant.

Karma is a consolation for losers.

The basic order of human existence is thus:

Alpha male
Woman
Beta provider

It's women that turn men into providers. Donkeys to pull the cart. It's a man's responsibility not to let that happen to him.

Basic evolution. The woman in the original post will just get her alpha DNA elsewhere instead.
No, that has nothing to do with evolution.And Its not the strongest ("alpha") who survives, i hope you know it.

if you meant biology, then yes, she would look for another men to f*ck.

but you know whats funny? i dont give a f*ck because i got enough options.

Sometimes i feel people in this forum should chill a bit with this alpha and beta thing.
 
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