"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why Do You Dudes Love The DJ Bible So Much

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PigAdlemPimp

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Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's text that easily covers 80% of the questions that are repeatedly asked in the forum.
 
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I'm not a fan of the Bible personally. There's a lot to learn from it, but I think it needs revising and desperately needs summarising.
 
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I reccomend reading the bible + The venusnian arts hand book by mystery.
 
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Some good shyte there, that's why.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
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I place faith in myself; in the ‘beginning’ I used David D and Swingcat’s work as reference material or for some guidance.
They have good material, but it's mostly beneficial for Beginners. Once you reach a certain level, you will start to notice it’s all regurgitated information.
 
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