"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why Do You Dudes Love The DJ Bible So Much

PigAdlemPimp

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Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's text that easily covers 80% of the questions that are repeatedly asked in the forum.
 

Jariel

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I'm not a fan of the Bible personally. There's a lot to learn from it, but I think it needs revising and desperately needs summarising.
 

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I reccomend reading the bible + The venusnian arts hand book by mystery.
 

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Some good shyte there, that's why.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
I place faith in myself; in the ‘beginning’ I used David D and Swingcat’s work as reference material or for some guidance.
They have good material, but it's mostly beneficial for Beginners. Once you reach a certain level, you will start to notice it’s all regurgitated information.
 
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