"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why Do You Dudes Love The DJ Bible So Much

PigAdlemPimp

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Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's text that easily covers 80% of the questions that are repeatedly asked in the forum.
 

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I'm not a fan of the Bible personally. There's a lot to learn from it, but I think it needs revising and desperately needs summarising.
 

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I reccomend reading the bible + The venusnian arts hand book by mystery.
 

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Some good shyte there, that's why.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
I place faith in myself; in the ‘beginning’ I used David D and Swingcat’s work as reference material or for some guidance.
They have good material, but it's mostly beneficial for Beginners. Once you reach a certain level, you will start to notice it’s all regurgitated information.
 
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