Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why Do You Dudes Love The DJ Bible So Much

PigAdlemPimp

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Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's text that easily covers 80% of the questions that are repeatedly asked in the forum.
 

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I'm not a fan of the Bible personally. There's a lot to learn from it, but I think it needs revising and desperately needs summarising.
 

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I reccomend reading the bible + The venusnian arts hand book by mystery.
 

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Some good shyte there, that's why.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Why do so many of you dudes place so much faith in the DJ Bible and advise everyone else to read it when it is only the thoughts of other So Suave members like ourselves.
The DJ Bible is just like a text written by, David DeAngelo, John Alexander, Mystery, Swinggcat, etc, it is one humans thoughts.
I place faith in myself; in the ‘beginning’ I used David D and Swingcat’s work as reference material or for some guidance.
They have good material, but it's mostly beneficial for Beginners. Once you reach a certain level, you will start to notice it’s all regurgitated information.
 
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