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Why do women tell us men to be 'humble'?

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I dunno why, just a thing that I been thinking of over for a while: Why do women in general tell us guys to be 'humble'?

You probably heard it to even from one of the most influential females in your life, your own mom many times throughout life and for me it has always bugged me a lot as a dude every time I heard this mumbo jumbo from a chick.

Why, you might say?
Because it is outright wrong. As man you should not be humble, you should be proud and not be shamed to show it.

Well; please let me elaborate that further with the definition of the word 'humble' itself:


Why the f'uck would I ever like to be: not proud, be low ranking, insignificant, to be powerless and not independent?
Like WTF is going on, right?

As guy as I want be powerful, proud as f'uck, independent and powerful and as ficking high ranking alpha as possible and accomplish greatness in my life.
Its what we men seek and it's the masculine thing that defines us as men.


Yet women tell us this nonsense and try from an early age to us, making (well trying too) us all 'simps and 'pu'ssies' when we scream out loud and announce it "F'uck, yes, yes... I fu'cking did it!" proudly to the whole world. And then your sister, mom, girlfriend whatever says almost automatically;
"You know you should should be more humble" Ppffft! (sigh....)

I'd don't think this is a thing of the feminist age or such, more a thing of the female narrative and their way of looking on the world/their perception of it. I might be wrong in my

So be the opposite of humble. Be bold, proud and let the whole freaking world know it that you are f'ucking awesome too!

Any comments? :cool:
 
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Yeah women speak in opposites. When they tell you to be "humble", it's a sh!t test.

Women will also call you an a$$hole if she really, really likes you
 

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Psychopathic traits make a man better with women due to his disinhibition, but worse for society. He'll be more detached and authentically arrogant, which women like. He won't hold himself back with the things normal men do; he has no fear of rejection - which is the fear of inadequacy and shame - or fear of bothering a woman inappropriately. This increases both the amount of approaches he makes, and the amount of things he feels he can sift through saying and doing to discover and perform what they respond to.

Humility and related traits by contrast make a man better for society, but worse with women due to his own inhibitions. However, if every man was a fullblown psychopath humanity would never have evolved remotely like it did, as psychopathy is like antimatter to humanity's altruistic evolutionary strategy. Psychopathy is a parasitic evolutionary strategy that can only be absorbed by the "host body" of human groups to a certain small extent before the whole prosocial dynamic collapses.
 
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Psychopathic traits make a man better with women due to his disinhibition, but worse for society. He'll be more detached and authentically arrogant, which women like. He won't hold himself back with the things normal men do; he has no fear of rejection - which is the fear of inadequacy and shame - or fear of bothering a woman inappropriately. This increases both the amount of approaches he makes, and the amount of things he feels he can sift through saying and doing to discover and perform what they respond to.

Humility and related traits by contrast make a man better for society, but worse with women due to his own inhibitions. However, if every man was a fullblown psychopath humanity would never have evolved remotely like it did, as psychopathy is like antimatter to humanity's altruistic evolutionary strategy. Psychopathy is a parasitic evolutionary strategy that can only be absorbed by the "host body" of human groups to a certain small extent before the whole prosocial dynamic collapses.
If women didn't reward psychopathic men with sex, and instead rewarded humble men with sex, then psychopaths would've died out long ago. It's just natural selection.

Also, if Humble Men stopped rescuing women who have been pumped and dumped by psychopaths then women might be less inclined to seek "thrills" from sex with psychopaths because there would be social ramifications (and women are loathed to suffer social ramifications).

So... it's essentially the beta males and the women that are at fault here. They allow the psychopaths to flourish.
 

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Women have this expectation from top tier guys , and has to do with attainability

she knows you are a top tier guy , and you not being humble , makes her feel that she can not really get the commitment she wants , because you are reminding her all the time that you are a top tier guy

me personally I had to tone down this side of me , and do not really talk about my achievements , as it will only make the girls even more insecure , and this is not an aphrodisiac
 

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Anytime a woman tells you what she "wants" in a man, she's telling you what she wants AFTER she's magically crazy in love with you.

They tell you what they "think" about attraction, which has NOTHING to do with what makes them "feel" attraction.
 

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Anytime a woman tells you what she "wants" in a man, she's telling you what she wants AFTER she's magically crazy in love with you.

They tell you what they "think" about attraction, which has NOTHING to do with what makes them "feel" attraction.
Women have 2 brains. Forebrain and Hindbrain.

Female Forebrain will say it wants humble, nice, honest and moral men.

Her lizard Hindbrain (which is far more powerful) wants to be spanked, disrespected, brutally ravaged and ignored.

It ain't easy being a woman.
 

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Silent, calm and deadly. Assertion is a vibe that women get curious or even wet over.
Boisterous boys are whimps with mouths. Over compensation for a lack of intestinal fortitude.
 

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From the ladies’ locker room:

Swagger. Think Brad Pitt in Thelma & Louise. The guys in Ocean’s 11. James Bond.

Swagger is where it’s at.
 

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I don’t think the definition of humble is what it actually means. Girls are not saying “be insignificant and powerless.”

When girls say “be humble”, I think they are saying

(1) be grateful for what you have
(2) don’t show off; let me find out by myself
(3) respect yourself and treat me with respect


On another note, society does do a fabulous job brainwashing men to serve young hot women at all costs. Society also does a great job putting down any man who doesn’t worship women, who isn’t married, or who isn’t having sex with a hot girl everyday. The average beta gets brainwashed and is always chasing women instead on focusing on himself.

Look at Britney Spears, 20+ years after the fact Justin Timberlake had to apologize because he got famous making a song about her.

Yet Dr. Dre’s wife got $2,000,000 US (cash), wants $400,000,000 US (cash), and caused him to have a brain aneurysm. She doesn’t have to apologize.

But I digress...
 

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Silent, calm and deadly. Assertion is a vibe that women get curious or even wet over.
Boisterous boys are whimps with mouths. Over compensation for a lack of intestinal fortitude.
The silent killer internally is not "humble", he is realistic knowing he has limitations, but he has a true powerful belief in himself backed up by experience. He does not voice it out of his mouth, downplaying himself because he knows it does not help to share this information.
 

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I don’t think the definition of humble is what it actually means. Girls are not saying “be insignificant and powerless.”

When girls say “be humble”, I think they are saying

(1) be grateful for what you have
(2) don’t show off; let me find out by myself
(3) respect yourself and treat me with respect


On another note, society does do a fabulous job brainwashing men to serve young hot women at all costs. Society also does a great job putting down any man who doesn’t worship women, who isn’t married, or who isn’t having sex with a hot girl everyday. The average beta gets brainwashed and is always chasing women instead on focusing on himself.

Look at Britney Spears, 20+ years after the fact Justin Timberlake had to apologize because he got famous making a song about her.

Yet Dr. Dre’s wife got $2,000,000 US (cash), wants $400,000,000 US (cash), and caused him to have a brain aneurysm. She doesn’t have to apologize.

But I digress...
"Girls are sugar and spice and everything nice", that programming embedded before age 5...
 

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Women have 2 brains. Forebrain and Hindbrain.

Female Forebrain will say it wants humble, nice, honest and moral men.

Her lizard Hindbrain (which is far more powerful) wants to be spanked, disrespected, brutally ravaged and ignored.

It ain't easy being a woman.
How does one access that hind brain if they are not currently being allowed to access it? I"m sure it starts from conversation, thoughts, thoughts which cause feelings, feelings which causes a reaction on the mind and body.
 

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How does one access that hind brain if they are not currently being allowed to access it? I"m sure it starts from conversation, thoughts, thoughts which cause feelings, feelings which causes a reaction on the mind and body.
You don't access it. You trigger it with behaviors that women are naturally attracted to. Attraction is not a choice.
 

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You don't access it. You trigger it with behaviors that women are naturally attracted to. Attraction is not a choice.
And if one Woman is attracted to low class behaviors and another is attracted to high class behaviors then what?
 

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And if one Woman is attracted to low class behaviors and another is attracted to high class behaviors then what?
All women are attracted to confidence - you're safe with that key behavior as a starting point.

All women are attracted to push/pull - it's attractive when she doesn't know how you really feel about her.

It's safe that say that all women become less attracted when she knows for sure that you like her.
 

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Yeah women speak in opposites. When they tell you to be "humble", it's a sh!t test.
Well it could be when it comes to random girls (and most likely is a type shi't test), but what when it is like your sister or mom that tell you to be more 'humble" then?
I never thought about this but be/can it happen that our family female members like your sister and mom test us guys too?
What do you guys think about that one?
 

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Well it could be when it comes to random girls (and most likely is a type shi't test), but what when it is like your sister or mom that tell you to be more 'humble" then?
I never thought about this but be/can it happen that our family female members like your sister and mom test us guys too?
What do you guys think about that one?
Their worried about themselves. When your more into you you're less into them.
 
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