"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do some girls act uninterested?

illmatic1005

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how come when a girl is attracted to me,,she sometiems looks like she is uninterested?

example: there was this HB 8 i met with my friends and we all talked and made jokes but everytime i talked to her she looked like she hated me or something..i didnt really care until she told my friend a week later that she thinsk im cute, she wants to see me etc...i was shocked because i thought she didnt care for me..

similar situations happend like this...
Why would a girl act like that if she is interested?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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illmatic1005

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nooo..i dont think so..shes not that type of girl..what else could it be?
 

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Oh yeah, i know what you mean, and don't worry, some girls are just like that. It's a part of their 'game', if you will. I personally fvcking hate it. :down:

Anywho! I'd proceed and try to game her like regular, and if she insists, call her out on her B.S.
 

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It's what they do. I'll chat with one at work, and she'll flirt, and one night we spoke for hours after work. Then sometimes i'll say something and its like she doesn't hear me.

It's called playing hard to get. Just play their own game with them
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bvbidd

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I got an idea. :whistle:

SHE IS NOT INTERESTED.

She can be attracted to you and still not 'like' you. As a girl she's gonna be attracted to just about every guy whos not fat or disfigured, the same way you are with every girl you see. But do you have oneitis for every girl you see? Nope. Neither does it work that way the other way around.

If she really was interested she'd get all red and suddenly act like she's consumed 10 Red Bulls. It's not part of they're game.
 

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Its a test. If she shows her interest, you might be a loser and fawn all over her, so instead, she keeps her interest hidden, and if you are interested, you'll react in one of two ways. Either you play it right, and just game her like normal, or you get turned off and don't move the game forward. Its one of a girl's ways of finding out if you're a pvssy or not.

Best way to handle it? Ignore it. Just game the chicks you like. Only give it up when she gives you a definite, unmistakable sign that she's not into you.
 

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Bvbidd said:
As a girl she's gonna be attracted to just about every guy whos not fat or disfigured, the same way you are with every girl you see.
Mmm... Anybody want to agree/disagree with this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bvbidd

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Of course physical attraction works the same, whether your a guy or a girl.

Guys need the pvssy, and girls need the d!ck.
 
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