"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do some girls act uninterested?

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how come when a girl is attracted to me,,she sometiems looks like she is uninterested?

example: there was this HB 8 i met with my friends and we all talked and made jokes but everytime i talked to her she looked like she hated me or something..i didnt really care until she told my friend a week later that she thinsk im cute, she wants to see me etc...i was shocked because i thought she didnt care for me..

similar situations happend like this...
Why would a girl act like that if she is interested?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nooo..i dont think so..shes not that type of girl..what else could it be?
 
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Oh yeah, i know what you mean, and don't worry, some girls are just like that. It's a part of their 'game', if you will. I personally fvcking hate it. :down:

Anywho! I'd proceed and try to game her like regular, and if she insists, call her out on her B.S.
 
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It's what they do. I'll chat with one at work, and she'll flirt, and one night we spoke for hours after work. Then sometimes i'll say something and its like she doesn't hear me.

It's called playing hard to get. Just play their own game with them
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I got an idea. :whistle:

SHE IS NOT INTERESTED.

She can be attracted to you and still not 'like' you. As a girl she's gonna be attracted to just about every guy whos not fat or disfigured, the same way you are with every girl you see. But do you have oneitis for every girl you see? Nope. Neither does it work that way the other way around.

If she really was interested she'd get all red and suddenly act like she's consumed 10 Red Bulls. It's not part of they're game.
 
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Its a test. If she shows her interest, you might be a loser and fawn all over her, so instead, she keeps her interest hidden, and if you are interested, you'll react in one of two ways. Either you play it right, and just game her like normal, or you get turned off and don't move the game forward. Its one of a girl's ways of finding out if you're a pvssy or not.

Best way to handle it? Ignore it. Just game the chicks you like. Only give it up when she gives you a definite, unmistakable sign that she's not into you.
 
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Bvbidd said:
As a girl she's gonna be attracted to just about every guy whos not fat or disfigured, the same way you are with every girl you see.
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Mmm... Anybody want to agree/disagree with this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Of course physical attraction works the same, whether your a guy or a girl.

Guys need the pvssy, and girls need the d!ck.
 
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