"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do some girls act uninterested?

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illmatic1005

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how come when a girl is attracted to me,,she sometiems looks like she is uninterested?

example: there was this HB 8 i met with my friends and we all talked and made jokes but everytime i talked to her she looked like she hated me or something..i didnt really care until she told my friend a week later that she thinsk im cute, she wants to see me etc...i was shocked because i thought she didnt care for me..

similar situations happend like this...
Why would a girl act like that if she is interested?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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illmatic1005

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nooo..i dont think so..shes not that type of girl..what else could it be?
 
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Oh yeah, i know what you mean, and don't worry, some girls are just like that. It's a part of their 'game', if you will. I personally fvcking hate it. :down:

Anywho! I'd proceed and try to game her like regular, and if she insists, call her out on her B.S.
 
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It's what they do. I'll chat with one at work, and she'll flirt, and one night we spoke for hours after work. Then sometimes i'll say something and its like she doesn't hear me.

It's called playing hard to get. Just play their own game with them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got an idea. :whistle:

SHE IS NOT INTERESTED.

She can be attracted to you and still not 'like' you. As a girl she's gonna be attracted to just about every guy whos not fat or disfigured, the same way you are with every girl you see. But do you have oneitis for every girl you see? Nope. Neither does it work that way the other way around.

If she really was interested she'd get all red and suddenly act like she's consumed 10 Red Bulls. It's not part of they're game.
 
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Its a test. If she shows her interest, you might be a loser and fawn all over her, so instead, she keeps her interest hidden, and if you are interested, you'll react in one of two ways. Either you play it right, and just game her like normal, or you get turned off and don't move the game forward. Its one of a girl's ways of finding out if you're a pvssy or not.

Best way to handle it? Ignore it. Just game the chicks you like. Only give it up when she gives you a definite, unmistakable sign that she's not into you.
 
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Bvbidd said:
As a girl she's gonna be attracted to just about every guy whos not fat or disfigured, the same way you are with every girl you see.
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Mmm... Anybody want to agree/disagree with this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Of course physical attraction works the same, whether your a guy or a girl.

Guys need the pvssy, and girls need the d!ck.
 
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