Why do so many people say dating is easier for men at 28-40?

[ChillDude6767]

99% of the challenge of dating is actually getting opportunities. Yea you have to be likeable/personable on a date but that's obvious common sense and let's be honest, that's not difficult at all. Once a woman likes you, you just have to be natural/comfortable/genuine and go through the normal process and you'll be fine.

If I got 3 or 4 dates with decent women, I would have a girlfriend in a week. I just get zero easy opportunities with anybody dateable

last week, this ugly fat indian girl tried like 6 times to approach me at a bar. That's the only kind of opportunities I get.

Being "likeable" doesn't necessarily mean you have a personality that's attractive to women. Any guy can be likeable and agree with them. A personality that's attractive to them might be more combative and rebellious/bad boy, etc.

Also, people don't act like their true selves on a date. There's no reason to go on more than 1 date with a girl. After that, it's straight to business (sex) or there wasn't enough attraction on the date.

 

[spinich]

So I thought you were going to back to the motherland? Is that not happening now?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

His passion is justifying his current experience in life.

Im giving a target which will cause him to meet his goals and quit his complaining. The new complaint will ne they wont leave him alone.

 

[corrector]

Too bad for Dave, he's two points lower so all the good women are flocking in groves to someone else because he's not a stereotypical white guy and all he can attract is fat Indian girls or girls with kids who are cratered-SMV. That is his story. He has everything in life except the right skin colour to attract the type of girls he's entitled and he doesn't have the BBC to fall back on either meaning it's a double-whammy.

Movie about BigDave being the sequel to the 40 Year Old Virgin is coming out this summer.

 

[Chi Town]

Dave there's nothing confident about you, confident men don't make threads about the stuff you do lol.....

You make threads saying if you were giving the opportunity you would dominate in the dating game? Meanwhile, the Guys that's actually dominating the game are doing so effortlessly and they damn sure wouldn't be making threads complaining how much they suck with women.

Like guru said, ya vibe is all bad, you're also not a 9 in looks, most likely you're a 4 or 5 on a good day, i told you this before, as a good looking guy myself, you would have you're pick of women if you was as attractive as you claim to be, you're delusional my man.

Oh and please stop with all the bragging about how great you are, you still suck with women so you not all that great, enjoy being rich and having a career because you are good in those areas, women? Not so much

 

[corrector]

Dave there's nothing confident about you, confident men don't make threads about the stuff you do lol.....

You make threads saying if you were giving the opportunity you would dominate in the dating game? Meanwhile, the Guys that's actually dominating the game are doing so effortlessly and they damn sure wouldn't be making threads complaining how much they suck with women.

Like guru said, ya vibe is all bad, you're also not a 9 in looks, most likely you're a 4 or 5 on a good day, i told you this before, as a good looking guy myself, you would have you're pick of women if you was as attractive as you claim to be, you're delusional my man.

Oh and please stop with all the bragging about how great you are, you still suck with women so you not all that great, enjoy being rich and having a career because you are good in those areas, women? Not so much

He said he's not white (despite claiming such on his dating profile), so he feels his 9 in looks is downgraded to a 4 or a 5 because he is ethnic. He's only a 9 in his home country or among people from his ethnic group. Women are just too racist in this country to appreciate BigDave.

 

[bigdave17]

He said he's not white (despite claiming such on his dating profile), so he feels his 9 in looks is downgraded to a 4 or a 5 because he is ethnic. He's only a 9 in his home country or among people from his ethnic group. Women are just too racist in this country to appreciate BigDave.

among ethnic middle eastern/armenian men, I'm easily in top 1 percentile, maybe top 0.1 percentile. Google Armenian men - take out the obvious mixed ones - and hardly anybody is even comparable to me. The issues come when I get graded on a white European scale. My facial features, even though they're heavily European compared to many other middle eastern men, they're not 100% European so I get downgraded to a 7ish.


now you guys will all say easy solution to this - date middle eastern women - but it's hard to find Armenian women where I live and the middle eastern community is often heavily religious/muslim (which is a big problem for me, us Armenians are not religious at all).

 

[guru1000]

He said he's not white (despite claiming such on his dating profile), so he feels his 9 in looks is downgraded to a 4 or a 5 because he is ethnic. He's only a 9 in his home country or among people from his ethnic group. Women are just too racist in this country to appreciate BigDave.

among ethnic middle eastern/armenian men, I'm easily in top 1 percentile, maybe top 0.1 percentile. Google Armenian men - take out the obvious mixed ones - and hardly anybody is even comparable to me. The issues come when I get graded on a white European scale. My facial features, even though they're heavily European compared to many other middle eastern men, they're not 100% European so I get downgraded to a 7ish.

More bullcrap to reinforce your loser mentalities.

I'm often mistaken for Armenian, and have the same complexion as you. Ever heard of tall, dark, and handsome? The most beautiful women in the world desire this type of complexion typically from the former Soviet Union, Russian-speaking countries today (including Armenia), where most of the 9s and 10s of the world come from.

I operate at every disadvantage you could conceive : girls who are 9-10s, 20+ years my junior, not comparable statuses to their ex bfs whom are celebs/ball-players/hedge fund managers, a social circle nowhere in comparison to theirs, no social media ... YET I still dominate.

It's call game. And both of you have none.

"Game" boils down to the image you portray. Your game paints you as desperado losers. Mine, the "god" frame, all encompassing, the limitless arena where every chick wants to seemly join. I didn't start here; I had to work hard to get here and remain steadfast to whom I owned I was ... to plow through a reality that wished to tell me a different story. I transcended because my mental Paradigms were greater than my Reality, until Reality acquiesced to its knees.

I don't feel sorry for you as you create your reality ... you either RISE or sit in your misery. But you guys will never (<==) rise, as to do that you would need the Paradigms of a Winner. And winners don't whine; they DO something about it--BUT most importantly ... Winners do not avoid rejection or challenge, rather they choose to embrace it.

 

[bigdave17]

More bullcrap to reinforce your loser mentalities.

I'm often mistaken for Armenian, and have the same complexion as you. Ever heard of tall, dark, and handsome? The most beautiful women in the world desire this type of complexion typically from the former Soviet Union, Russian-speaking countries today (including Armenia), where most of the 9s and 10s of the world come from.

I operate at every disadvantage you could conceive : girls who are 9-10s, 20+ years my junior, not comparable statuses to their ex bfs whom are celebs/ball-players/hedge fund managers, a social circle nowhere in comparison to theirs, no social media ... YET I still dominate.

It's call game. And both of you have none.

"Game" boils down to the image you portray. Your game paints you as desperado losers. Mine, the "god" frame, all encompassing, the limitless arena where every chick wants to seemly join. I didn't start here; I had to work hard to get here and remain steadfast to whom I owned I was ... to plow through a reality that wished to tell me a different story. I transcended because my mental Paradigms were greater than my Reality, until Reality acquiesced to its knees.

I don't feel sorry for you as you create your reality ... you either RISE or sit in your misery. But you guys will never (<==) rise, as to do that you would need the Paradigms of a Winner. And winners don't whine; they DO something about it--BUT most importantly ... Winners do not avoid rejection or challenge, rather they choose to embrace it.

your'e not Armenian though. You may have similar complexion to me but you have 100% European features. You're also considered 9-10/10 when graded on white European standards while I'm merely a 7 to 7.5


look at our experiences when doing online dating - you easily get dates with 8s and other quality women. I get absolutely nothing even as my standards are much much much lower than yours

 

[Dash Riprock]

This thread is hilarious, another recycle I've been reading for 1.5 years from OP, lol.

When you have solid game, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. Case in point:

Out last night with maybe 12-15 people. Almost all are 35-45+. We were having dinner in honor of one of our friends who recently and unexpectedly passed away. Here comes the waitress. I mean a SOLID 9/10. Chatted her up, gave her the usual C&F routine and asked her some simple questions. A lot of IOIs being thrown back. She's probably 24-26. I'm 45+. Made no difference to her. Kept chatting her up and making her laugh each time she came over. End of the night, I pay my bill. She asks if I want anything else. I say yes, your number, because we're going hiking and then out for margs...if you can keep up with me. She laughs and looks me up and down. She says she'll try to keep up. She comes back with her number written down, old school style, no typing in phone BS. I say thanks, say goodbye to people and get the hell out of there. Pretty much perfect execution of the DJ principles I've learned and PRACTICED over the years.

So, you can read all you want and p*iss and moan and whine and b*itch on SS, BUT if you don't take advice, swallow bitter red pills, get the he*ll out of your own way (@bigdave17) and PRACTICE, you'll never be DJ.

It takes work, people.

Ciao,

Dash

 

[bigdave17]

This thread is hilarious, another recycle I've been reading for 1.5 years from OP, lol.

When you have solid game, it's like shooting fish in a barrel. Case in point:

Out last night with maybe 12-15 people. Almost all are 35-45+. We were having dinner in honor of one of our friends who recently and unexpectedly passed away. Here comes the waitress. I mean a SOLID 9/10. Chatted her up, gave her the usual C&F routine and asked her some simple questions. A lot of IOIs being thrown back. She's probably 24-26. I'm 45+. Made no difference to her. Kept chatting her up and making her laugh each time she came over. End of the night, I pay my bill. She asks if I want anything else. I say yes, your number, because we're going hiking and then out for margs...if you can keep up with me. She laughs and looks me up and down. She says she'll try to keep up. She comes back with her number written down, old school style, no typing in phone BS. I say thanks, say goodbye to people and get the hell out of there. Pretty much perfect execution of the DJ principles I've learned and PRACTICED over the years.

So, you can read all you want and p*iss and moan and whine and b*itch on SS, BUT if you don't take advice, swallow bitter red pills, get the he*ll out of your own way (@bigdave17) and PRACTICE, you'll never be DJ.

It takes work, people.

Ciao,

Dash

One aspect people here are ignoring is i have significantly lower standards than most of you guys

I only want about a 6 face (but with a nice body). I'm literally ok with a woman less attractive than myself and I'm still struggling

 

[zekko]

I only want about a 6 face (but with a nice body)

Yeah, a 6 that never ages.

Anyway, Guru already told you that a 6 with an 8 body is an 8. People emphasize their good points.

 

[bigdave17]

Yeah, a 6 that never ages.

Anyway, Guru already told you that a 6 with an 8 body is an 8. People emphasize their good points.

I showed Guru a few of the girls I liked on dating sites and he rated them between 4-6s

you guys need to stop this narrative that I want a 10/10

and practically every other race outside of real light skin white women age well. Olive skinned white women, asians, blacks, hispanics, middle eastern, indian, fiipino, etc... all age well. I'm just not that interested in light skin white women

 

[Mike32ct]

I showed Guru a few of the girls I liked on dating sites and he rated them between 4-6s

you guys need to stop this narrative that I want a 10/10

and practically every other race outside of real light skin white women age well. Olive skinned white women, asians, blacks, hispanics, middle eastern, indian, fiipino, etc... all age well. I'm just not that interested in light skin white women

But even with a “6” face, these fitness types you like with full azz’s will easily consider themselves low 8s. That’s the point.

We’re not talking about plane janes who don’t exercise. These women put a lot of work into their appearance and in their minds will be thinking they are at LEAST a super high 7, but most likely an 8.

So irrespective of her actual (honestly appraised) looks rating, she will hold out for HER Chadlite type at a minimum.

 

[ChillDude6767]

Yeah, a 6 that never ages.

Anyway, Guru already told you that a 6 with an 8 body is an 8. People emphasize their good points.

These numbers mean nothing because it's all opinion.

 

[bigdave17]

But even with a “6” face, these fitness types you like with full azz’s will easily consider themselves low 8s. That’s the point.

We’re not talking about plane janes who don’t exercise. These women put a lot of work into their appearance and in their minds will be thinking they are at LEAST a super high 7, but most likely an 8.

So irrespective of her actual (honestly appraised) looks rating, she will hold out for HER Chadlite type at a minimum.

I saw one of our gym bunnies (who works out) yesterday at a bar with a dude who is a legit 3/10


I'm talking terrible skin, acne, pitted and very bald with ugly beard

 

[Mike32ct]

I saw one of our gym bunnies (who works out) yesterday at a bar with a dude who is a legit 3/10

I'm talking terrible skin, acne, pitted and very bald with ugly beard

I believe you. I don't know what his "angle" or "wildcard" is.

 

[bigdave17]

I believe you. I don't know what his "angle" or "wildcard" is.

supposedly he was dating this cute personal trainer before - another broad who is exactly my type (thick, dark hair, dark skin, big booty)


I'm guessing he met them through social circle. Trying to randomly approach girls like that at a bar or a gym is nearly impossible even when you're a 7/10 guy yourself. Imagine trying to approach them being a 3/10 with a nasty ass beard and ugly pitted acne destroyed skin.

 

[bigdave17]

Are you saying you're the 3/10 with the bad beard and skin?

huh? no I've posted pics of myself, everybody here agrees I'm somewhere around a 6 to 7.5. Guru rated me as a 7.5/10


I have 2 knocks against myself - I'm Armenian so I have some ethnic features to my face (although I look very European compared to most other Armenian man) and I've lost a good amount of hair. I did shave my head in 2016 though and I posted a pic of myself on a dating forum and multiple women said I looked better with a shaved head

 

[bigdave17]

Then what are you bytching about?

how are 2s and 3s pulling 6 to 7s with a hot body when i'm a 7.5 and if I message 6-7s like that on dating sites or cold approach in real life, I would get laughed at instantly?