Why do so many people say dating is easier for men at 28-40?

[bigdave17]

Your attitude sucks kid.

Even if you were a 9, you’d get no play. Your vibe is utterly repulsive.

you know damn well this is a load of f*cking nonsense. If I actually got any opportunities, I would dominate. I have utmost 100% confidence in my abilities on a date.


and anyways, this discussion is basically an insult to my ethnicity and my people. I'm easily a 9 for Armenian standards. I can't change my natural ethnic facial features

 

[ChillDude6767]

99% of the challenge of dating is actually getting opportunities. Yea you have to be likeable/personable on a date but that's obvious common sense and let's be honest, that's not difficult at all. Once a woman likes you, you just have to be natural/comfortable/genuine and go through the normal process and you'll be fine.

If I got 3 or 4 dates with decent women, I would have a girlfriend in a week. I just get zero easy opportunities with anybody dateable

last week, this ugly fat indian girl tried like 6 times to approach me at a bar. That's the only kind of opportunities I get.

Being "likeable" doesn't necessarily mean you have a personality that's attractive to women. Any guy can be likeable and agree with them. A personality that's attractive to them might be more combative and rebellious/bad boy, etc.

Also, people don't act like their true selves on a date. There's no reason to go on more than 1 date with a girl. After that, it's straight to business (sex) or there wasn't enough attraction on the date.

 

[LiveYourDream]

The truth about your first statement @bigdave17– would be your second statement.

I have utmost 100% confidence in my abilities on a date.

you know damn well this is a load of f*cking nonsense.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I have utmost 100% confidence in my abilities on a date.

If that ^^^^ were actually true @bigdave17, you would not have 3000+ posts, constantly/continually arguing for your limitations.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I have utmost 100% confidence in my abilities on a date.

If that ^^^^ were true @bigdave17 you would actually be out dating, rather than creating an ever seemingly impossible standard, to justify why you can’t/aren’t.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I have utmost 100% confidence in my abilities on a date.

@bigdave17 This ^^^^^ is YOUR DENIAL staring back at you, in the mirror. Have a good look.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I have utmost 100% confidence in my abilities on a date.

@bigdave17–You may be able to con yourself with that statement/lie, know that the rest of us here see right through it.

 

[LiveYourDream]

If I actually got any opportunities, I would dominate.

@bigdave17—Show us!!! Just one date!!! Show us!!!

 

[LiveYourDream]

If I actually got any opportunities, I would dominate.

@bigdave17–I recommend you update that to:

If I actually gave up my excuses, I could actually dominate.

 

[LiveYourDream]

His passion is the GAME.

His passion is justifying his current experience in life.

 

[LiveYourDream]

 

[spinich]

So I thought you were going to back to the motherland? Is that not happening now?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

His passion is justifying his current experience in life.

Im giving a target which will cause him to meet his goals and quit his complaining. The new complaint will ne they wont leave him alone.

 

[corrector]

Too bad for Dave, he's two points lower so all the good women are flocking in groves to someone else because he's not a stereotypical white guy and all he can attract is fat Indian girls or girls with kids who are cratered-SMV. That is his story. He has everything in life except the right skin colour to attract the type of girls he's entitled and he doesn't have the BBC to fall back on either meaning it's a double-whammy.

Movie about BigDave being the sequel to the 40 Year Old Virgin is coming out this summer.

 

[Chi Town]

Dave there's nothing confident about you, confident men don't make threads about the stuff you do lol.....

You make threads saying if you were giving the opportunity you would dominate in the dating game? Meanwhile, the Guys that's actually dominating the game are doing so effortlessly and they damn sure wouldn't be making threads complaining how much they suck with women.

Like guru said, ya vibe is all bad, you're also not a 9 in looks, most likely you're a 4 or 5 on a good day, i told you this before, as a good looking guy myself, you would have you're pick of women if you was as attractive as you claim to be, you're delusional my man.

Oh and please stop with all the bragging about how great you are, you still suck with women so you not all that great, enjoy being rich and having a career because you are good in those areas, women? Not so much

 

[corrector]

Dave there's nothing confident about you, confident men don't make threads about the stuff you do lol.....

You make threads saying if you were giving the opportunity you would dominate in the dating game? Meanwhile, the Guys that's actually dominating the game are doing so effortlessly and they damn sure wouldn't be making threads complaining how much they suck with women.

Like guru said, ya vibe is all bad, you're also not a 9 in looks, most likely you're a 4 or 5 on a good day, i told you this before, as a good looking guy myself, you would have you're pick of women if you was as attractive as you claim to be, you're delusional my man.

Oh and please stop with all the bragging about how great you are, you still suck with women so you not all that great, enjoy being rich and having a career because you are good in those areas, women? Not so much

He said he's not white (despite claiming such on his dating profile), so he feels his 9 in looks is downgraded to a 4 or a 5 because he is ethnic. He's only a 9 in his home country or among people from his ethnic group. Women are just too racist in this country to appreciate BigDave.

 

[bigdave17]

He said he's not white (despite claiming such on his dating profile), so he feels his 9 in looks is downgraded to a 4 or a 5 because he is ethnic. He's only a 9 in his home country or among people from his ethnic group. Women are just too racist in this country to appreciate BigDave.

among ethnic middle eastern/armenian men, I'm easily in top 1 percentile, maybe top 0.1 percentile. Google Armenian men - take out the obvious mixed ones - and hardly anybody is even comparable to me. The issues come when I get graded on a white European scale. My facial features, even though they're heavily European compared to many other middle eastern men, they're not 100% European so I get downgraded to a 7ish.


now you guys will all say easy solution to this - date middle eastern women - but it's hard to find Armenian women where I live and the middle eastern community is often heavily religious/muslim (which is a big problem for me, us Armenians are not religious at all).

 

[guru1000]

He said he's not white (despite claiming such on his dating profile), so he feels his 9 in looks is downgraded to a 4 or a 5 because he is ethnic. He's only a 9 in his home country or among people from his ethnic group. Women are just too racist in this country to appreciate BigDave.

among ethnic middle eastern/armenian men, I'm easily in top 1 percentile, maybe top 0.1 percentile. Google Armenian men - take out the obvious mixed ones - and hardly anybody is even comparable to me. The issues come when I get graded on a white European scale. My facial features, even though they're heavily European compared to many other middle eastern men, they're not 100% European so I get downgraded to a 7ish.

More bullcrap to reinforce your loser mentalities.

I'm often mistaken for Armenian, and have the same complexion as you. Ever heard of tall, dark, and handsome? The most beautiful women in the world desire this type of complexion typically from the former Soviet Union, Russian-speaking countries today (including Armenia), where most of the 9s and 10s of the world come from.

I operate at every disadvantage you could conceive : girls who are 9-10s, 20+ years my junior, not comparable statuses to their ex bfs whom are celebs/ball-players/hedge fund managers, a social circle nowhere in comparison to theirs, no social media ... YET I still dominate.

It's call game. And both of you have none.

"Game" boils down to the image you portray. Your game paints you as desperado losers. Mine, the "god" frame, all encompassing, the limitless arena where every chick wants to seemly join. I didn't start here; I had to work hard to get here and remain steadfast to whom I owned I was ... to plow through a reality that wished to tell me a different story. I transcended because my mental Paradigms were greater than my Reality, until Reality acquiesced to its knees.

I don't feel sorry for you as you create your reality ... you either RISE or sit in your misery. But you guys will never (<==) rise, as to do that you would need the Paradigms of a Winner. And winners don't whine; they DO something about it--BUT most importantly ... Winners do not avoid rejection or challenge, rather they choose to embrace it.

 

[samspade]

If I actually got any opportunities, I would dominate.

If a chicken had lips, it would whistle. "If" is one of the saddest words a man can use.

 

[bigdave17]

More bullcrap to reinforce your loser mentalities.

I'm often mistaken for Armenian, and have the same complexion as you. Ever heard of tall, dark, and handsome? The most beautiful women in the world desire this type of complexion typically from the former Soviet Union, Russian-speaking countries today (including Armenia), where most of the 9s and 10s of the world come from.

I operate at every disadvantage you could conceive : girls who are 9-10s, 20+ years my junior, not comparable statuses to their ex bfs whom are celebs/ball-players/hedge fund managers, a social circle nowhere in comparison to theirs, no social media ... YET I still dominate.

It's call game. And both of you have none.

"Game" boils down to the image you portray. Your game paints you as desperado losers. Mine, the "god" frame, all encompassing, the limitless arena where every chick wants to seemly join. I didn't start here; I had to work hard to get here and remain steadfast to whom I owned I was ... to plow through a reality that wished to tell me a different story. I transcended because my mental Paradigms were greater than my Reality, until Reality acquiesced to its knees.

I don't feel sorry for you as you create your reality ... you either RISE or sit in your misery. But you guys will never (<==) rise, as to do that you would need the Paradigms of a Winner. And winners don't whine; they DO something about it--BUT most importantly ... Winners do not avoid rejection or challenge, rather they choose to embrace it.

your'e not Armenian though. You may have similar complexion to me but you have 100% European features. You're also considered 9-10/10 when graded on white European standards while I'm merely a 7 to 7.5


look at our experiences when doing online dating - you easily get dates with 8s and other quality women. I get absolutely nothing even as my standards are much much much lower than yours