Why do prospects ask to see a picture of the ex?

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Several girls taht I've ****ed and pushed away as they wanted to be called my girlfriend; have always asked to see a picture of my ex girlfriend. I would mention/ask about their longest relationship on the 3rd date usually... I would mention my one serious relationship with a girl a went out with for 3 years during high school. Usually a week later they would ask to see a picture of her... Why... ?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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They're just feeling you out I guess. I'll ask my poontang pantry and get back to you.


Personally if they asked to see a pic of my ex, I'd pull a picture of a chimpanzee out of my wallet. One with a tutu on would be even better.
 

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Because your exes hottitude partly determines your status. Have you never seen that episode of Seinfeld when George is pursued by loads of models because he claims a photo of a model is his ex?
 

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Nighthawk, I think you nailed the nail on the head, or how ever they say it :) Thanks!
 

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But still, I don't think you could go too wrong by pulling a photo of a chimp w/ a tutu out of your wallet either. Just say (tounge in cheek) that she hadn't put her makeup on yet....The gal would get the hint right away...if she pressed on, then pull out the hottie pic...
 

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Originally posted by Nighthawk
Because your exes hottitude partly determines your status. Have you never seen that episode of Seinfeld when George is pursued by loads of models because he claims a photo of a model is his ex?
ding ding ding

Women, if they can't get a clear vibe from you.. say... you look like you might have potential or might be a catch, will use one of her.. how do I put it.. "lifelines" if you will to determine if you are "worthy" of her presense.

People think men are shallow.. women are the most shallow people on earth when ti comes to each other. The only thing they give a damn about is how the other girl looks compared to her.

Because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you can do for a woman, but what you can do for her status... the better status symbol you are, the more chances you have with good looking women

I carry 3-4 pics of my last EX, because she is particulary hot, espically to other women, wherever I go and it never fails
 
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