Several girls taht I've ****ed and pushed away as they wanted to be called my girlfriend; have always asked to see a picture of my ex girlfriend. I would mention/ask about their longest relationship on the 3rd date usually... I would mention my one serious relationship with a girl a went out with for 3 years during high school. Usually a week later they would ask to see a picture of her... Why... ?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why do prospects ask to see a picture of the ex?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
reyalp
Master Don Juan
They're just feeling you out I guess. I'll ask my poontang pantry and get back to you.
Personally if they asked to see a pic of my ex, I'd pull a picture of a chimpanzee out of my wallet. One with a tutu on would be even better.
Personally if they asked to see a pic of my ex, I'd pull a picture of a chimpanzee out of my wallet. One with a tutu on would be even better.
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But still, I don't think you could go too wrong by pulling a photo of a chimp w/ a tutu out of your wallet either. Just say (tounge in cheek) that she hadn't put her makeup on yet....The gal would get the hint right away...if she pressed on, then pull out the hottie pic...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
ding ding ding
Women, if they can't get a clear vibe from you.. say... you look like you might have potential or might be a catch, will use one of her.. how do I put it.. "lifelines" if you will to determine if you are "worthy" of her presense.
People think men are shallow.. women are the most shallow people on earth when ti comes to each other. The only thing they give a damn about is how the other girl looks compared to her.
Because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you can do for a woman, but what you can do for her status... the better status symbol you are, the more chances you have with good looking women
I carry 3-4 pics of my last EX, because she is particulary hot, espically to other women, wherever I go and it never fails