"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do prospects ask to see a picture of the ex?

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Several girls taht I've ****ed and pushed away as they wanted to be called my girlfriend; have always asked to see a picture of my ex girlfriend. I would mention/ask about their longest relationship on the 3rd date usually... I would mention my one serious relationship with a girl a went out with for 3 years during high school. Usually a week later they would ask to see a picture of her... Why... ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They're just feeling you out I guess. I'll ask my poontang pantry and get back to you.


Personally if they asked to see a pic of my ex, I'd pull a picture of a chimpanzee out of my wallet. One with a tutu on would be even better.
 

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Because your exes hottitude partly determines your status. Have you never seen that episode of Seinfeld when George is pursued by loads of models because he claims a photo of a model is his ex?
 

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Nighthawk, I think you nailed the nail on the head, or how ever they say it :) Thanks!
 

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But still, I don't think you could go too wrong by pulling a photo of a chimp w/ a tutu out of your wallet either. Just say (tounge in cheek) that she hadn't put her makeup on yet....The gal would get the hint right away...if she pressed on, then pull out the hottie pic...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Nighthawk
Because your exes hottitude partly determines your status. Have you never seen that episode of Seinfeld when George is pursued by loads of models because he claims a photo of a model is his ex?
ding ding ding

Women, if they can't get a clear vibe from you.. say... you look like you might have potential or might be a catch, will use one of her.. how do I put it.. "lifelines" if you will to determine if you are "worthy" of her presense.

People think men are shallow.. women are the most shallow people on earth when ti comes to each other. The only thing they give a damn about is how the other girl looks compared to her.

Because at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you can do for a woman, but what you can do for her status... the better status symbol you are, the more chances you have with good looking women

I carry 3-4 pics of my last EX, because she is particulary hot, espically to other women, wherever I go and it never fails
 
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