Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Why do married people say they love their kids but hate being married?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Most people live boring lives as they get older, 2 weeks vacation, go somewhere, come back to the daily grind. Where did the passion go, where’s the romance. Well work and monotony are to blame and complacency.
Most guys are getting to late 30’s early 40’s couple kids, overweight wife, tons of debt, and working their asses off for an ungrateful wife that doesn’t want your love or doesn’t give it back or she nags you about dishes and stupid ****ing chores. And you wonder why marriage is stressful.
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I fail to see why 40yrs old and older guys marry women their own age given the mental/emotional baggage they have, their unattractive body shape and the laws at work against them...
Even if they do for the "validation" I dont see whats the achievement to get spoiled goods losing value by the hour, if they do it for companionship or love then its even worse, its like drinking beer to heal from an hangover.
Decisions taken out of fear or to try to fit in are never good decisions.
most 40 year old guys look like complete garbage though to be fair
We like to think we will all be like Clooney and Pitt - 90% of guys at 40 are fat, bald and very lame
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Thats an extra reason to avoid getting married, when you basically offer no incentive for her to be loyal nor turn her on physically.
I dont chase girls when I'm out of shape cause the cost/benefits ratio is low, huge amount of work that would be better spent to get back in shape and cash dividends later.
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Speak from experience? I've heard the same from a lot of men. I thank G-d I do not have to deal with that.
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A man and a woman create another person. Usually, that creates a bond with the child and their parents. That is why parents say they love their kids... Their blood. Their spouse is their partner, but not their blood. They would only be "family" by a legal decree, not by family bloodline. Whereas, an offspring is of family bloodline. Hence, usually unconditional love.
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In respect to this, some actually believed in love and wanting to make their partner happy. It's just amazing how a piece of paper changes everything.
DON'T DO IT!!!!!
I have yet to find or meet a happily married man.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Yea, but they do ensure indentured servitude for some. LOL.
a year ago I met this girl I liked her and she liked me we had a few truly romantic moments but she was so phlegmatic even if I hated her personality in a relationship (extremly) phlegmatic-melancholic I was committed to turn her into my love for life just because she was intelligent had a pretty face a back better than marble, etc. but because she liked me she pulled me off as if I was not a fellow huma. Even though she wasn't bossy and was extremely amicable adn intelligent she instinctively ordered me once to fight some cause for her (some classroom pettiness)
Fortunately now I've evolved And I'm serching for a sanguine woman and I don't know if it will go romantic or inhumane but at least that's the personality I like
but getting back to the question that's it males can become attracte to the mere female essence reagardless of how they'd like their woman to be and women just screen for a suitable nesting partner regardless of how they would like their man to be.