"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do I go crazy over small breasts?

firstbornunicorn

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I always feel left out of the "yeah big tits are the ****" conversations. A/B/C cup are absolutely perfect. But A/B drive me absolutely insane. I've been with girls that had less breasts than I do pecs, but it legit drives me insane. Could just be the whole petit-ness of the girls though.

What's up with this? Does it make evolutionary sense?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always feel left out of the "yeah big tits are the ****" conversations. A/B/C cup are absolutely perfect. But A/B drive me absolutely insane. I've been with girls that had less breasts than I do pecs, but it legit drives me insane. Could just be the whole petit-ness of the girls though.

What's up with this? Does it make evolutionary sense?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Op is completely grown up and free of subconscious urges to suck at his Momma's teat.

Not gynocentrically controlled in any matriarchal way, at all.

No desire to return to infancy.

Will not need to be mothered in an intimate relationship.











(sorry, I'm laughing a little as I write this.... I'm projecting and only wishing this were true psychologically, to benefit all us smallchested women out there, lol
:rofl:)
 

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this was my initial hunch, but I get genuinely turned off if I know a chick is under 20.
It has nothing to do with actual age. It's that aura that it creates of a younger gal psychologically regardless if you actually want to be with young gals or not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Op is completely grown up and free of subconscious urges to suck at his Momma's teat.

Not gynocentrically controlled in any matriarchal way, at all.

No desire to return to infancy.

Will not need to be mothered in an intimate relationship.











(sorry, I'm laughing a little as I write this.... I'm projecting and only wishing this were true psychologically, to benefit all us smallchested women out there, lol
:rofl:)
You were flat all this time? Somehow I feel very relieved.
 

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Haha I like small ones too. And in my age range believe me that's a plus.
 

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I always feel left out of the "yeah big tits are the ****" conversations. A/B/C cup are absolutely perfect. But A/B drive me absolutely insane. I've been with girls that had less breasts than I do pecs, but it legit drives me insane. Could just be the whole petit-ness of the girls though.

What's up with this? Does it make evolutionary sense?
Yes, it's the petiteness (BTW, a small man would be called "petit", but obviously no man would want to be called this, and so it's only used in French-heritage families to signify the younger generation of a father-son combo having the same name, and even then, it's shortened to "T", so Cajun QB Bobby Hebert's son Bobby is called "T-Bob", even though he weighs more than his father), and not so much for pedo reason, but because it signifies a body that will not get fat. No man wants to FatAcceptanceMax. :mad: :mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I always feel left out of the "yeah big tits are the ****" conversations. A/B/C cup are absolutely perfect. But A/B drive me absolutely insane. I've been with girls that had less breasts than I do pecs, but it legit drives me insane. Could just be the whole petit-ness of the girls though.
I'm always happy to discuss breasts of any size.

I think you hit it with that last sentence. You like the look of the small thin girls and the small breasts go write along with that. Can also go along with youth, fertility, and not having had children.
 

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aww, that's great.

Awesome you're relieved. Yes!

Offtopic, have you taken your bike out for spring?
No time for this as I am in training for another business. Maybe later when the training is over and the weather is good.
 

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I always feel left out of the "yeah big tits are the ****" conversations. A/B/C cup are absolutely perfect. But A/B drive me absolutely insane. I've been with girls that had less breasts than I do pecs, but it legit drives me insane. Could just be the whole petit-ness of the girls though.

What's up with this? Does it make evolutionary sense?
Could be latent homosexuality.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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