"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do I feel this way? Insight please

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I’ve been seeing this girl for a while and there is a part of me that wants her to say ‘I’ve found someone better than you.’

Am I crazy to feel this way? Some insight please.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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do you subconsciously want to get rid of her? or do you wish you had some competition to motivate you to fight for her and bring your A game? perhaps you secretly crave drama and excitement to spice up an otherwise dull day
 

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I’ve been seeing this girl for a while and there is a part of me that wants her to say ‘I’ve found someone better than you.’

Am I crazy to feel this way? Some insight please.
It's common, nothing to worry about.
 

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do you subconsciously want to get rid of her?
That’s a good question and it’s like I want to be her beta slave rather than having power and leverage because she looks good.

Got to remind myself, and you guys,

1. Take emotions out
2. Think logically
3. Go with the flow

Let’s go men!
 

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sounds like a fetish to me
Haha. Unlikely. I too have this thoughts when I'm done with a pretty girl but just wish she would find someone else so that I don't have to dump her and have all that ensuing drama.

There's a technique towards dumping a girl which involves her thinking she dumps you.:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Nope, that's always my biggest fear. Must be a fetish.
 
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