"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why do I feel this way? Insight please

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I’ve been seeing this girl for a while and there is a part of me that wants her to say ‘I’ve found someone better than you.’

Am I crazy to feel this way? Some insight please.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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do you subconsciously want to get rid of her? or do you wish you had some competition to motivate you to fight for her and bring your A game? perhaps you secretly crave drama and excitement to spice up an otherwise dull day
 

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I’ve been seeing this girl for a while and there is a part of me that wants her to say ‘I’ve found someone better than you.’

Am I crazy to feel this way? Some insight please.
It's common, nothing to worry about.
 

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do you subconsciously want to get rid of her?
That’s a good question and it’s like I want to be her beta slave rather than having power and leverage because she looks good.

Got to remind myself, and you guys,

1. Take emotions out
2. Think logically
3. Go with the flow

Let’s go men!
 

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sounds like a fetish to me
Haha. Unlikely. I too have this thoughts when I'm done with a pretty girl but just wish she would find someone else so that I don't have to dump her and have all that ensuing drama.

There's a technique towards dumping a girl which involves her thinking she dumps you.:up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nope, that's always my biggest fear. Must be a fetish.
 
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