"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do girls think that they can just treat us like a pile of ****.

Stéphane

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I'm tired of all the chumps that treat women like gold, it really ruined the quality of women. I'm really angry it's bad enough that every women think that they can away with treating you like ****, but now it's also my cousins. I'm fed up, I don't even want a girl anymore there all trash, and i'm tired of dealing with a bunch of children. Sex isn't worth this ****, I rather get rich, and hire hookers i'm tired of dealing with head games, and a bunch of BS.

My approach journal is over, i'm never approaching a girl anymore unless I find one of quality, witch isn't going to happen. I can't beleive I cried over this **** when I was younger, there so not worth it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so you are going for guys now? They're probably no easier. :crackup:

But you're just getting too worked up over something. Give it a couple days and take a break from approaching to gather your thoughts.
 

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Why treat all your failures like it's the end of your life?

So woman aint working out right now. Dude, there is SO MUCH stuff to enjoy in life. Go to school, start a biz, eat healthy, learn a new language, travel, workout, relax with your fav book, or do anything that you enjoy.

I've had a similar mindset in the past - letting some bad experiences with women define me. But you know what? You're still alive!!! So many people will take their last breathe 1 second from now, and now, and now, and so on.

Do something great, IMPRESS YOURSELF, and STRIVE TO BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE.

Your luck with women will change, guaranteed. Best of all, you'll be too obsessed with your own life to change a THING.

Moral

Jot down your ideal self - then LIVE IT!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hmm I never said that it was the end of my life, I just said that i'm done with women. I'm tired of babysitting a bunch of full grown women.
 

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Stéphane said:
Hmm I never said that it was the end of my life, I just said that i'm done with women. I'm tired of babysitting a bunch of full grown women.
Sorry man, but you were put on this earth to procreate.

If you aint, then well you're living a lie. I didn't say you were gonna commit suicide or anything. But you can def stop being a babysitter.

Maybe that's your problem. Just trying to help.
 
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