"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do girls think that they can just treat us like a pile of ****.

Stéphane

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I'm tired of all the chumps that treat women like gold, it really ruined the quality of women. I'm really angry it's bad enough that every women think that they can away with treating you like ****, but now it's also my cousins. I'm fed up, I don't even want a girl anymore there all trash, and i'm tired of dealing with a bunch of children. Sex isn't worth this ****, I rather get rich, and hire hookers i'm tired of dealing with head games, and a bunch of BS.

My approach journal is over, i'm never approaching a girl anymore unless I find one of quality, witch isn't going to happen. I can't beleive I cried over this **** when I was younger, there so not worth it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ezily

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so you are going for guys now? They're probably no easier. :crackup:

But you're just getting too worked up over something. Give it a couple days and take a break from approaching to gather your thoughts.
 

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Why treat all your failures like it's the end of your life?

So woman aint working out right now. Dude, there is SO MUCH stuff to enjoy in life. Go to school, start a biz, eat healthy, learn a new language, travel, workout, relax with your fav book, or do anything that you enjoy.

I've had a similar mindset in the past - letting some bad experiences with women define me. But you know what? You're still alive!!! So many people will take their last breathe 1 second from now, and now, and now, and so on.

Do something great, IMPRESS YOURSELF, and STRIVE TO BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE.

Your luck with women will change, guaranteed. Best of all, you'll be too obsessed with your own life to change a THING.

Moral

Jot down your ideal self - then LIVE IT!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hmm I never said that it was the end of my life, I just said that i'm done with women. I'm tired of babysitting a bunch of full grown women.
 

Gibraltar

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Stéphane said:
Hmm I never said that it was the end of my life, I just said that i'm done with women. I'm tired of babysitting a bunch of full grown women.
Sorry man, but you were put on this earth to procreate.

If you aint, then well you're living a lie. I didn't say you were gonna commit suicide or anything. But you can def stop being a babysitter.

Maybe that's your problem. Just trying to help.
 
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