"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do girls think that they can just treat us like a pile of ****.

Stéphane

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I'm tired of all the chumps that treat women like gold, it really ruined the quality of women. I'm really angry it's bad enough that every women think that they can away with treating you like ****, but now it's also my cousins. I'm fed up, I don't even want a girl anymore there all trash, and i'm tired of dealing with a bunch of children. Sex isn't worth this ****, I rather get rich, and hire hookers i'm tired of dealing with head games, and a bunch of BS.

My approach journal is over, i'm never approaching a girl anymore unless I find one of quality, witch isn't going to happen. I can't beleive I cried over this **** when I was younger, there so not worth it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ezily

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so you are going for guys now? They're probably no easier. :crackup:

But you're just getting too worked up over something. Give it a couple days and take a break from approaching to gather your thoughts.
 

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Why treat all your failures like it's the end of your life?

So woman aint working out right now. Dude, there is SO MUCH stuff to enjoy in life. Go to school, start a biz, eat healthy, learn a new language, travel, workout, relax with your fav book, or do anything that you enjoy.

I've had a similar mindset in the past - letting some bad experiences with women define me. But you know what? You're still alive!!! So many people will take their last breathe 1 second from now, and now, and now, and so on.

Do something great, IMPRESS YOURSELF, and STRIVE TO BE THE BEST YOU CAN BE.

Your luck with women will change, guaranteed. Best of all, you'll be too obsessed with your own life to change a THING.

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Jot down your ideal self - then LIVE IT!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stéphane

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Hmm I never said that it was the end of my life, I just said that i'm done with women. I'm tired of babysitting a bunch of full grown women.
 

Gibraltar

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Stéphane said:
Hmm I never said that it was the end of my life, I just said that i'm done with women. I'm tired of babysitting a bunch of full grown women.
Sorry man, but you were put on this earth to procreate.

If you aint, then well you're living a lie. I didn't say you were gonna commit suicide or anything. But you can def stop being a babysitter.

Maybe that's your problem. Just trying to help.
 
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