Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
it's a insecurity issue maybe? or is just that they don't give a **** to other traits?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why do girls criticize men about their looks?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
well when they comment with their friends on a man's body or face and they become like *****es saying he is ugly and such.
Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
it seems they are more shallow than men in this area.
DeathDealer
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i wouldn't call it shallow. it's no different from guys saying oh this girl is flat chested or whatever.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
well does it bother you that they do?
I think girls like to do that just cause they can and they like to compete with their gfs. ex: getting a great looking bf as theirtrophy and bragging to their gfs about it .
They say a lot, but their words mean nothing. men speak logic and women speak emotions.
hell they may even say this kind of stuff to a LJBF guy to see his reaction.
I think girls like to do that just cause they can and they like to compete with their gfs. ex: getting a great looking bf as theirtrophy and bragging to their gfs about it .
They say a lot, but their words mean nothing. men speak logic and women speak emotions.
hell they may even say this kind of stuff to a LJBF guy to see his reaction.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
no we still are.
an attractive woman will go with an a guy who she thinks is unattractive
cant say the same for men. its the first thing we look at it. It may be shallow but im not pretend that im not. i cant help it. It was how i was born and im not gonna hide it.
an attractive woman will go with an a guy who she thinks is unattractive
cant say the same for men. its the first thing we look at it. It may be shallow but im not pretend that im not. i cant help it. It was how i was born and im not gonna hide it.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
and dont use beer as an excuse
sure the "beer goggles" will make men go for girls they think are ugly but woman will go for afc men. so its the same, just differnt shape
sure the "beer goggles" will make men go for girls they think are ugly but woman will go for afc men. so its the same, just differnt shape
sexual_intellectual
Don Juan
looks matter, why do you want girls to pretend they don't? just work with what you have - if you're struggling to live with the facts, get yourself some professional help.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Sexual,
You're a bird aren't you.
You're a bird aren't you.
1) You're hanging out with the wrong type of women. The women I hang out with (not neccesarily dates... but friends, etc) do NOT do that.
2) Who care's what they say? Most will say they don't wanna ****, but once junior is knocking on the main door she's happy to let him in and give him a bath.
2) Who care's what they say? Most will say they don't wanna ****, but once junior is knocking on the main door she's happy to let him in and give him a bath.
Tha Realnezz
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Pretty much.
"Oh she doesn't have an ass"
But then you ask for her number when you get her alone.
Same thing but women are extra catty when they get dissed by said guy.And most women don't have the guts to admit that they find some flaw but they still would do him.(like we do).
But yeah they've flipped the table on us by saying that we are the superficial ones that only care about looks.
They are the ones who do that. A guy could be a school janitor who's murdered 15 people.If the girls think he's cute he's gonna get ass.
That's just the way it is.
I dont agree with the above quote a women will only go with a guy if she feels some sort of attraction to him for example looks, personality, wealth, dominance. I dont think any girl would go with a guy who she is not attracted to unless shes a gold digger or using him for some other purpose or are you refering to physical attraction?
Here's something a lot of guys don't know...
Women want a guy with a nice face and fit body. They all want a guy who turns them on and who they can flaunt to their friends, but if they said this they'd be accused of being shallow, so they make up some sh1t about looking for a sense of humour and nice personality.
Women want a guy with a nice face and fit body. They all want a guy who turns them on and who they can flaunt to their friends, but if they said this they'd be accused of being shallow, so they make up some sh1t about looking for a sense of humour and nice personality.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most women are just as shallow about looks as men are. I know I am. I do think I'm probably more shallow than a lot of women are, though, because I would NEVER date an unattractive millionaire. If I don't find a guy very attractive (especially their face) there is absolutely nothing they can do to interest me. I don't think most women are this shallow, though.
Do you mean that they are criticizing men for looking masculine?
If that is the case then these women are trying to force a feminist ideal on you. Don't listen to it. Next those hoes out of your head and keep in mind that there are women who are not feminists.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
I must say I disagree with that. I know this guy who many women say are good looking but he has never been on a date, had a girlfriend, or has ever even been kissed. Good looks are about as effective as a good sense of humor - they get you in the door, but they do not keep you in the house.
Well, it's fine for looks to play somewhat of a factor as far as initial interest goes - but any woman who will not even want to speak or have anything to do with a guy just because she doesn't think he's a 10 is extremely shallow. Women like this usually do not have anything going for THEMSELVES so therefore will be unable to appreciate any other qualities in somebody else.
Come on man are you serious? She never said anything about the guy having to be a 10. Why is it alright for you as a man to not give a woman a chance because you don't like her looks but it isn't alright for a woman? I'd rather see a woman with a guy because of his looks than with an ugly guy that has money.
Biotch, please...
Didn't I just admit that I'm shallow when it comes to looks? Hell, a guy can look good to me and I can still not have any interest in him for other reasons. Yes, I'm picky, but when I DO settle on someone, they won't ever find a more devoted, giving, attentive woman on the planet. So I'm selfish and want it all...that's my perogative.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.