"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do/did you feel a lack of confidence?

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Dukester

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i had a terrible childhood too. dad was an alcoholic, etc... ya kno the deal.

i dont use that as an excuse for my lack of confidence. when i didnt have confidence, it was because i beat my self up mentally.
i would take rejections too hard, i would try too much, and i was so utterly AFC it wasnt funny.
but now... well read my signature links
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i used to do a lot of drugs so that had me looking like a corpse almost every day
 
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Yeah, I had the same problems as many of the ppl here.. acne... alchoholic father.. co-dependant mother... rare skin disease over 95% of my body... molested when I was 8 or so ... um...
obviosly I was picked on in school I look like a freak with chicken pox all over my body for 6 years, but all thats over with I was really mad at the whole world and my self most of all for a long long time but now I say meh what can you do but move on right?
the problem now is I dont really fit in anywhere I look ****ing awsome now.. no acne or skin disease .. I get alot of attn from girls ... to the poin that they just walk up and say " Your hot"
but I'm so defensive and paranoid I'm always just like thanks .. **** you go away.
Its hard for me to cope with the change I mean ... yeah
go from somone who everyone finds repulsive who has to hangout with the biggest losers in town because no one else will even talk to me other than make fun of me... not the kids.. the teachers... the teachers where the ones that always made my life the worste .. o yeah my 3rd grade teacher took way too mutch joy in beating me....
but now ... girls actually pursue ME!! its really wierd. lol
I always assume its a trick or something... like my enemies (have lots of them) are trying to lure me out so they can jump on me from behind(paranoia, but after the first few times I got wise, and a gun) but back to the girl thing... yeah I make awsome first impressions... till they find out I'm insane.
any ideas on this one?
 
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Originally posted by White_Rabbit
Yeah, I had the same problems as many of the ppl here.. acne... alchoholic father.. co-dependant mother... rare skin disease over 95% of my body... molested when I was 8 or so ... um...
obviosly I was picked on in school I look like a freak with chicken pox all over my body for 6 years, but all thats over with I was really mad at the whole world and my self most of all for a long long time but now I say meh what can you do but move on right?
the problem now is I dont really fit in anywhere I look ****ing awsome now.. no acne or skin disease .. I get alot of attn from girls ... to the poin that they just walk up and say " Your hot"
but I'm so defensive and paranoid I'm always just like thanks .. **** you go away.
Its hard for me to cope with the change I mean ... yeah
go from somone who everyone finds repulsive who has to hangout with the biggest losers in town because no one else will even talk to me other than make fun of me... not the kids.. the teachers... the teachers where the ones that always made my life the worste .. o yeah my 3rd grade teacher took way too mutch joy in beating me....
but now ... girls actually pursue ME!! its really wierd. lol
I always assume its a trick or something... like my enemies (have lots of them) are trying to lure me out so they can jump on me from behind(paranoia, but after the first few times I got wise, and a gun) but back to the girl thing... yeah I make awsome first impressions... till they find out I'm insane.
any ideas on this one?
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yeah, stop making up shit cause sum people actually got lives like that u fucking faggot
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not being very popular in my earlier life and friends used to put me down a lot & I took it quite to heart. Also used to have a chronic fear of kissing girls when I was younger, thankfully that isn't a problem anymore! I think that's about it really.
 
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Friends were **** bags.
Took advantage of my $$ and entrepreneurial spirit to fund their ****ing "concerts" that were horrible, till I finally said NO and I did em myself, then I made money. I never ever felt comfortable with them, they always had something behind their back.... One incident that i laugh at now, they hog tied me and put me in a closet...
 
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